NEED HELP GOING FROM XENOPHOBE TO XENOPHILE

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NEED HELP GOING FROM XENOPHOBE TO XENOPHILE

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WHAT DO I DO? im not getting any factions that want that or even eglatarian

[Red Bat]

There's a few events that can give the xenophile trait to a bunch of your pops.

Integrating charismatic aliens also helps.

[Super Arthritis ⁧⁧ ⁧⁧Man]

There's certain prerequisite things that determine how attractive each of the 8 ethos are. Like long stretches of war or peace affect militarist and pacifist for example. You can see what's affecting your ethos' attraction from the faction screen by mousing over the 8 ethics. Screenshot related.
http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=918175833

There's also a list on the wiki here: http://www.stellariswiki.com/Ethics_attraction

I was trying to do the exact same thing with my guys.

[Ficelle]

Free the slaves, give them rights, stop purge.
Modify some xenos in your empire to be charismatic, remove repugnant from xenos if some have it.
Make treaties with xenophile empires.
Suppress xenophobe factions, activate the edict giving ethic divergence, desactivate anything giving ethic convergence.
If you are authoritarian, enslave your xenophobes.
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It will piss off your xenophobes a lot and some xenophiles should pop.