Remote play together: how?

[@R+5]

i tried running the game as "server" (host?), and have good upload and download speeds but the other guest misses frames. I reduced the video quality to 720 and fast, but it wont work properly.

What are the settings the guest (that has good download speed, but reduced upload speed) should use, to try to run without skipping frames?

[Brofessional]

What kind of pc are you running? Specs?

[@R+5]

CPU
i7-3630QM

GPU
GeForce GT 740M (2GB DDR3)

RAM
16GB

OS and steam are running in a SSD, and the game files start from an HDD.

internet speed:
38+- dwn / 40+- up
2ms ping

The guest laptop has way better specs, but asymmetric internet speed (probably better download speed than me, but far worse upload speed: will update you when i can check the number).

The game seems to run well for a few seconds, but then misses a few frames, then starts working ok, then misses frames, and so on, making it unplayable for the guest.

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Specs shouldn't matter, I have a really bad PC and I played it with my friends no problem.

[@R+5]

im asking, because i wasnt able to play properly.

as i mentioned earlier, the game runs well a few seconds, but then it misses a frame or few frames, making precise movements impossible for the guest.

i need to know how it can optimize settings properly to avoid this issue.