Or does one play only as a female?

I'm stuck in the first room, the one with the threesome with the peanut gallery (is that still a thing when it's just one?) I've interacted with everything in the level but I couldn't find how to unlock the next room, apparently there's supposed to be a "the next room is unlock" message popping up? but it's not happening for me, so I need to press an additional button? please help...

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It seems strange to me that you have to enable the penis on a male character, when it should be there already.

As stated in the question and if so how far woulld be planned to go???