Cant marry

[Tumbleweed Tea]

I cant marry Svana, the first dialogue goes well but then i only have an option for "can you give me another chance?" and she says nope. Also even on save before i tried console to find out if shes suitable but console says no and for her sister too. Can someone help me figure out why its not suitable? Ive never been married and they both are also not married. im clan lvl 4 and quite wealthy with few good traits and no bad traits.

[Ruffio]

If you fail the "speech mini game" you can always go to the clan leader of her clan and try arrange an marriage. Then they will offer the oldest unmarried female in their clan.

If that person is busy leading a party that is in an army, or being held in prision/captive, they wont make an offer though.

[Clovis Sangrail]

The marriage dialog is one place where the old adage 'Save Early; Save Often' will save you a lot of grief.

[Ruffio]

Originally posted by Clovis Sangrail:

The marriage dialog is one place where the old adage 'Save Early; Save Often' will save you a lot of grief.

I like some of the aspects of CK3.... You like someone? Kidnapp them and make them your concubine (if your culture and religion allows it) -)

[Tumbleweed Tea]

Originally posted by Ruffio:

If you fail the "speech mini game" you can always go to the clan leader of her clan and try arrange an marriage. Then they will offer the oldest unmarried female in their clan.

If that person is busy leading a party that is in an army, or being held in prision/captive, they wont make an offer though.

i didnt fail any mini game

[kristianjakob]

Originally posted by Clovis Sangrail:

The marriage dialog is one place where the old adage 'Save Early; Save Often' will save you a lot of grief.

I just go straight to the "agree on a price with daddy" approach instead. No need to spend time on the whole courting affair;)

[Clovis Sangrail]

Originally posted by Tumbleweed Tea:

Originally posted by Ruffio:

If you fail the "speech mini game" you can always go to the clan leader of her clan and try arrange an marriage. Then they will offer the oldest unmarried female in their clan.

If that person is busy leading a party that is in an army, or being held in prision/captive, they wont make an offer though.

i didnt fail any mini game

You failed something if you got that other chance message.

What mods have you installed. including any that you later deleted or disabled?

[Ruffio]

Originally posted by kristianjakob:

Originally posted by Clovis Sangrail:

The marriage dialog is one place where the old adage 'Save Early; Save Often' will save you a lot of grief.

I just go straight to the "agree on a price with daddy" approach instead. No need to spend time on the whole courting affair;)

You don't necessary get the one you want that way though as you always get offered the oldest unmaried.

[kristianjakob]

Originally posted by Ruffio:

Originally posted by kristianjakob:

I just go straight to the "agree on a price with daddy" approach instead. No need to spend time on the whole courting affair;)

You don't necessary get the one you want that way though as you always get offered the oldest unmaried.

I know. Honestly, that can be rage-inducing.

It took me 100 days in my current(last) campaign to get both wifes. One or the other (dad/wife to be) was always captured by the time I got to them. Not ideal when the theme of that campaign was to produce some killer companions (aside from the monumental waste of time crossing forth and back over the map).