Improving relationship with spouse?

[Supply Side Jesus]

I am afraid my character is in a dog house, at -10 relationship with super-spouse (who is cruel and demanded I pillage everything). Is there a way to recover this?

[Roz Britanicus]

I am using mods to cover the failing of Bannerlord at the current patch. Here a list and they help FamilyControl / Fighting Together Relationship / Friendly Lords/ Marry anyone / Nepotism / Today we feast / True controller + True Relations / Usefull Companions/ Perfect Executioner ( from nexus ) I also got the dueling mod and distingished servivce mod from steam workshop . This as made Relationships work and Feuds to work between lords and the player. Plus my wife loves me 60 relationship and even the children have working relations too. For me Bannerlord need to be more than a Battle sim as the battles can only carry interest so far . hopefully Tale worlds will fix there game in the future.

[Rhapsody]

Board games in lord's hall.

[an entire Roman legion]

every few days I give her some gifts - it's just a +2 in relation but it adds up over time.

[Seggellion]

Follow her party. When she enters combat, come to her rescue. You will increase relation and become her knight in shining armor.