Father marriage issue

[Shakybill]

Im typing all this after i layed d9wb for bed so bear with me.

Im trying to marry Mitela of Vlandia, daughter to Ingulther (i think).
Im playing on rediculously easy.
Ive got like 15 relation with Mitela, and like 10-12 with Ingulther.
This is apparently enough to marry his daughter when I ask only issue is when i throw the offer to marry, he offers up a different daughter, Asela, whose relation (i think through a bug) somehow is mirroring my relation to Mitela.

What can i do?
It wont let me specifcy my intent to Mitela, who is single and 20 i think.
I HAVE NOT interacted with Asela other than meeting her. So she has no reason to have 15 relation.

Im pretty stuck on it honestly. I want Mitela because she has 4 gold traits and her skills are good.
While Asela just has the "impulsive" trait and like 100 in horse riding and literally no other skills.

Please help a brother out

[Ruffio]

You cant pick.. You could mary her, get her killed, and then come back for the other...

[Emperor2000]

Originally posted by shakybill:

Im typing all this after i layed d9wb for bed so bear with me.

Im trying to marry Mitela of Vlandia, daughter to Ingulther (i think).
Im playing on rediculously easy.
Ive got like 15 relation with Mitela, and like 10-12 with Ingulther.
This is apparently enough to marry his daughter when I ask only issue is when i throw the offer to marry, he offers up a different daughter, Asela, whose relation (i think through a bug) somehow is mirroring my relation to Mitela.

What can i do?
It wont let me specifcy my intent to Mitela, who is single and 20 i think.
I HAVE NOT interacted with Asela other than meeting her. So she has no reason to have 15 relation.

Im pretty stuck on it honestly. I want Mitela because she has 4 gold traits and her skills are good.
While Asela just has the "impulsive" trait and like 100 in horse riding and literally no other skills.

Please help a brother out

You must go to her personally, then you must choose the romance option, then you must talk to her 2 times and pass the charm checks, if one of them fails, you can no longer marry via charm, then when you have success on all charm checks you must talk with her clan leader.

[Shakybill]

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You must go to her personally, then you must choose the romance option, then you must talk to her 2 times and pass the charm checks, if one of them fails, you can no longer marry via charm, then when you have success on all charm checks you must talk with her clan leader. [/quote]

So if i dont get all 6 of those blips, (i got 5) thats it? Nothing i can do?

[Ruffio]

Originally posted by shakybill:

You must go to her personally, then you must choose the romance option, then you must talk to her 2 times and pass the charm checks, if one of them fails, you can no longer marry via charm, then when you have success on all charm checks you must talk with her clan leader. [/quote]

So if i dont get all 6 of those blips, (i got 5) thats it? Nothing i can do? [/quote]

reload, and try again

[Clovis Sangrail]

Originally posted by shakybill:

So if i dont get all 6 of those blips, (i got 5) thats it? Nothing i can do?

You can reload and start over. That's what the cool kids do because random numbers can be a ♥♥♥♥♥.