My Wife & Kids hate me

[Fanatical Meat]

I have negative relations with each after leaving her to manage a castle for awhile.
How the hell do you improve relations with your wife in this game?
I have a negative relation now so I can’t play games with her.

[Go0lden_Archer]

Bo one like monsters😂

You can try yo raise it by giving her gifts (via barter) But im not sure it it would work good, it gives relation increase to your own clan, but not sure if wife counts like that.

[Fanatical Meat]

I tried this, could not give her anything in the castle. I could barter but nothing from inventory appeared to be able to give. The box was empty.
I’ve taken her back into my party and assigned another companion to the Castle.
Going to do some battles with her hopefully it increases.

[Umbrella]

Maybe you can make a party with only her or a few troops, make em get attacked and then save her? Idk relations right now is kinda borked.

[Topaz Magoo]

woman not happy with everything i do? where have i heard that one before?

[Welcome to Idiocracy 2023]

Originally posted by Topaz Magoo:

woman not happy with everything i do? where have i heard that one before?

Most of them do not love you as a human being. All they want is your money.

[Mattias]

Originally posted by Angela Kazmierczak the Tyrant:

Originally posted by Topaz Magoo:

woman not happy with everything i do? where have i heard that one before?

Most of them do not love you as a human being. All they want is your money.

Now you break my heart .... ;)

[Welcome to Idiocracy 2023]

Originally posted by Mattias:

Originally posted by Angela Kazmierczak the Tyrant:

Most of them do not love you as a human being. All they want is your money.

Now you break my heart .... ;)

At least when she is getting old enough all she has left is a cat to pet. The cat knows how to use its claws when it is getting treated bad or the food is not its taste.

[Panda]

Realism in video games got the new level. Now your wife can hate you not only IRL but in games too.

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Originally posted by Panda:

Realism in video games got the new level. Now your wife can hate you not only IRL but in games too.

Strip her down for her tier6 armor and sent her naked and without any troops into the woods. She will come back with a huge army and many children who cannot be yours. No pun intended. This is how it is working in Bannerlords.

[Mattias]

Originally posted by Angela Kazmierczak the Tyrant:

Originally posted by Panda:

Realism in video games got the new level. Now your wife can hate you not only IRL but in games too.

Strip her down for her tier6 armor and sent her naked and without any troops into the woods. She will come back with a huge army and many children who cannot be yours. No pun intended. This is how it is working in Bannerlords.

Tbh I think that worked in early version of Bannerlord. Quite fun thou that when you ignore your wife you still get "bastards"? :)
I think they have patched that?.

Now you just need to be with your wife, some time and you get children.
(many ppl don't understand that, like, do children grow on trees?)

About OP:s problem:
Let her party on her own, follow her and then rescue her when she gets in trouble. :)

[Apples]

Originally posted by Fanatical Meat:

I have negative relations with each after leaving her to manage a castle for awhile.
How the hell do you improve relations with your wife in this game?
I have a negative relation now so I can’t play games with her.

You're a bad husband and a bad father, live with it.

[Mr Steel]

Join the club... Oh you're talking about the game. Um never mind.

[Mattias]

Just let her work her issues out on her own, maybe she'll like you?

Or, as I said:
Let her party on her own, follow her and then rescue her when she gets in trouble. :)