Fields of Mistria

Fields of Mistria

Felixir 18.11.2024 klo 11.33
Queerness fulfilment in Mistria
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Queer folks, I have 2 questions for you about Fields of Mistria's management of queer identity, expression and relationship !

  1. What are your thoughts, as a queer player, about the character customization ? Did you settle for your usual pronouns, or did you experiment with the options ? Did you find an aesthetic that felt euphoric enough for you ?

  2. How do you live your Mistria's love story so far ? Sticking with the same type of character you crush on every dating sim ? Hesitating between people all over the gender spectrum ? What do you think about the "bi by default" setup ? It's a wild topic I know ^^'
Viimeisin muokkaaja on Felixir; 18.11.2024 klo 11.34
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1. As the character customization I still try to find a short hair that it looks as gorgeous as the long ones. Besides of it, it's really comfortable that no matter how the character is dressed the pronouns are the one's that you choose. I know that it's the idea purpose itself of that feature, but still it's so good to use. And the gender euphoria goes up with the aesthetic.

2. Well, this time I liked a different type of character I usually like, but to be fair all the dating candidates are on top. The "bi by default" it's so comfortable for all queer people, but as the pronouns set up it's its purpose and I'm glad they added it.
Gyplia 18.11.2024 klo 11.43 
As a NB person I felt pretty excited that I could put my preferred pronouns in, didn't really feel the need to "experiment" with the option but I for sure appreciate the attention to include many different ones.
As for the romance aspect I don't have much to say yet, considering the fact that it has not been explored much so far, so I'll refrain from any sort of judjment on that aspect until I get to experience the new update.
gnewna 18.11.2024 klo 12.08 
I really appreciate the pronoun options including he/they and she/they, though my one wish would be to have an outright non binary NPC in the game (I don't think there are any?? Unless I've missed someone). They don't even have to be romanceable, though I'd love it if they were.

As far as the existing romance options, there's several I like, though Hayden is probably my favourite.
1. The character customization is PHENOMINAL :D I use it/its pronouns and seeing them as an option made me lose it bc it's never an option! I enjoy being able to mix and match items regardless of the associated gender :]

2. I def like the current set up, and my controversial opinion is I like that Olric isn't datable. I like to think he's aroace :]!! I'm actually torn between Valen, Celine, Eiland and March xD
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my controversial opinion is I like that Olric isn't datable. I like to think he's aroace :]

You're not the only one who thinks so :) I hope they make this officially canon.
1: I stuck with the pronouns associated with the character I was making. If I was making a character based on me, I'd stick with the ones used for me. As for the visuals, I just pick whatever seems right. I don't get "euphoric" about game characters, so.

2: I go with whatever character is the most interesting or attractive on my first playthrough of any of these kinds of games. Not even necessarily a character I would even date myself, if their story is interesting enough. There's not enough here yet to be bothered about being picky, though. You can choose whoever.
BimbleBee 19.11.2024 klo 11.52 
1. I liked the customization options! Though as someone who prefers to play masc enby, I feel my cosmetic options are limited, as they either go pretty femme or full butch. I'd like to see more elegant, gender neutral accessories and clothes!

2. I love all the romance options, but what I'd really love to see is rival romances. I know they're not popular in farming sims, but I just want to see my ships (Valen/Juniper and March/Ryis) become a reality. If I'm not dating someone I think they should be allowed to find love! I'd even love a matchmaking kind of option. Hard to implement, but very cool for sure.
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2. I love all the romance options, but what I'd really love to see is rival romances. I know they're not popular in farming sims, but I just want to see my ships (Valen/Juniper and March/Ryis) become a reality. If I'm not dating someone I think they should be allowed to find love! I'd even love a matchmaking kind of option. Hard to implement, but very cool for sure.

Kind of in a similar vein, I'd really love to see platonic alternatives to progress with potentially-romanceable NPCs - I hate when you miss out on character development/lore because you're not dating someone, and being stuck with a 'first date quest available' or whatever on an NPC (I love Sun Haven but I don't need all these ! on my map for people my character isn't interested in like that) can be a bit bothersome. Incorporating matchmaking could be fun, too (though I'd also like to see polyamorous options...) - maybe a three choice conversation where you can commit to dating, commit to friendship (and if you want, also matchmake or just let things happen with other NPCs without our involvement) or commit to dating with both of you able to also date others (allows both the player to date multiple people ethically, and the background ship-sailing to occur)
Susiron 20.11.2024 klo 16.58 
1. I like the character customization options and really appreciate the options for pronouns, and just in general how fluid the farmer character feels in that way.
I did stick with my usual he/him for this, though, as I typically play farming sims as a masc character and lean towards mlm romances. Which doesn't fully align with my real life orientation, but I've never really played as "myself" in these games so much as an offshoot that's inspired by my preferences and gender envy.

2. I've been enjoying the romance options in this game, and I'm a bit stuck in deciding who to romance. Though I think that Eiland's autistic swag is winning me over.

Like other people have said above, I'd really love to see some rival romances that shows more nuance and flow with the characters in town, outside of your own story. It really makes the world feel more alive at the end of the day, I think.

In regards to 'bi as default', I'd say I'm pretty neutral? I absolutely appreciate that there's queer options, and part of me does love that it's bi at default just because that allows for so much options. And I know I'd be really bummed if a masc character I loved was straight and not romanceable
Though part of me can't help but think that it would be neat to see at least a few characters that were of a more specific sexual orientation, and had more nuanced dialogue to reflect that.

Also, the only other thing I have to say here is that I'd love to see a character like Merri become romanceable. She's so sweet, and has a body type you really don't see much/at all as a romance option. And I know I have at least one lesbian friend who really wants to wife her up
1. I like the character customization. The pronoun options felt like a relief. I went with what I prefer in real life, and I've found many different aesthetics that I like, including many that I can't really do in real life. I love that the medium length hair options were expanded recently, and I really enjoy being able to save outfits and change my look whenever & wherever I am. I am fully in favor of loads more customization options, though! Can't have too many :)

2. There's not much to go on right now as far as romance. I only have 4 stars with people and haven't done the new Stargazing festival yet. I'm kinda disappointed there's no nonbinary character, though. I thought Valen was nb but seems like she's a woman. Similarly, I'm also a bit disappointed that the romanceable guys all seem more or less traditionally masculine (except maybe Eiland) and the romanceable girls all seem pretty traditionally feminine (except Valen). Yeah there's different archetypes of masc and fem represented, but I'm not seeing much in the way of men characters who are fem or women characters who are masc, at least that are romanceable. I do like the bi by default setup. I think it's nice to allow for romanceable characters to be whatever sexual orientation you want, and it doesn't lock me out of any content. It would be nicer if any of the non-romanceable people were in gay relationships, though. Like if Landen & Errol were dating. I am also perfectly fine with Olric not being romanceable. I'm not convinced that Juniper didn't body swap him with Dozy... lol
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2. I love all the romance options, but what I'd really love to see is rival romances. I know they're not popular in farming sims, but I just want to see my ships (Valen/Juniper and March/Ryis) become a reality. If I'm not dating someone I think they should be allowed to find love! I'd even love a matchmaking kind of option. Hard to implement, but very cool for sure.

Ooo, I would love to do some matchmaking!
Having the option to choose multiple pronouns (She/They instead of just She/Her or They/Them) and be able to change them at any time was so freeing for me. I love Stardew but one of its main limitations for me was that it was locked into Male/Female genders, which excludes a whole lot of NB people. It's so inclusive of genderfluid people as well, which I love. It honestly made me cry because I not only love the game, but feel safe recommending this game to my partner who uses they/them pronouns. Along a similar line, the diversity in the game made me feel warm and fuzzy; it's so nice not having conventionally attractive (read: skinny) white characters. Seeing POC just...exist in Mistria without it being a big deal felt really nice as a minority. The diverse body types was also a really welcome surprise; the devs clearly put so much love and care into these NPCs and it shines through with their art style. Each character is beautiful in their own way :))

1. As a queer player, I used my usual pronouns (She/They). I found the aesthetic absolutely adorable, but the only issue was that glasses look funky on the sprite's pixel art, so I didn't use them. I really liked that the clothes aren't locked by gender or body type (masc/fem), and I've been able to find a variety of aesthetics. I very much enjoy the pink and green cottage style, and have seen mods for witchy designs + dark botanicals + dark academia-ish stuff. I didn't get any euphoria for myself, but was very pleased that others would get the representation and affirmation that they deserved :))

2. Playersexual characters are pretty cool IMO, I especially loved it in Baldur's Gate 3 and it has similarly translated into FoM. Love is love, and it transcends gender (though NPCs having some preferences would also be really cool, as it adds a lot of dimension to the game). If matchmaking gets added to the game, I really hope Juniper + Valen are canon because the tension at the inn is on another level, lol. This also ties into the point about preferences; still being able to romance Juniper or Valen, but they prefer women if that makes sense? Rival matchmaking would be sosososososso fun (I could see Elsie being involved in it).

It also feels so fresh to have seemingly no gender roles (e.g. in Stardew, the position of the player at the Flower Dance + wedding clothing is based on gender). The characters are all so cute and well-designed, and I'm honestly in love with all of their sprites. Special mention to Reina; as a gay woman, my jaw DROPPED when I saw her summer outfit.

To actually answer Q2, I'm torn between Reina and Eiland. Probably going to wait until the full game drops and have a save for each of them. Cuties!
I almost exclusively romance female characters in video games, but this time, while I immediately gravitated towards both Celine and Reina, I am also *really* crushing on Hayden. I feel like this is less "all over the gender spectrum" and more that some of the characters feel older/younger than the others. Let me explain:

Usually in these games all the character appear to be near the same age. In this game, Valen reads as like, 40+, more experienced lady, (like the attractive older doctor lady in "Shrinking"), Hayden reads as 40+ older gentle soul, Ryis & March read like baby 20 year olds, Reina is like 23-26ish, Celine, Adeline, and Eiland are like 24-28ish, Juniper and Balor are mid-30's. Sooo, it feels less like a gender spectrum and more like which one of these personalities fits where I am in life? Seeings how I am in my plant era with animals I absolutely love doting on and also I love cooking, Celine, Reina, and Hayden all speak to me.

All this said, it kinda feels like Olric, Darcy, Merri, and Vera should also be romance-able. (Sure, it would be harder since you'd see them less, but I think that might be part of the fun). I would include Louis but he kinda gives me that vibe of gay man who is already settled down with a partner. And I know it seems odd to have two brothers be romance-able, but Olric is so sweet and I personally am so tired of the unavailable dude you slowly win over trope. It's almost 2025, we deserve better in our romantic partners. Honestly, even Juniper is pushing it for me, she's kind of a B-. Even Elsie is a more interesting non-option than March or Juniper. She seems way more interesting even as an older character- she has such stories and she's for sure a cougar. Meow.

For reference, I am a 38yr old queer woman who has been playing these games since harvest moon on gameboy (in which I always played a boy so I could romance the girls).
1. love the pronoun inclusivity, pretty sure i went for she/they my usual pronouns
2. I usually like the bi by default characters when it comes to romance in games, my only complaint for a lot of games that use this is that they don't really add much representation outside of that, and a lot of the characters themselves you wouldn't really know where gay unless you romance them as a same-sex character (never really showing any same-sex attraction outside of the PC, or talking about queerness at all) or having any other queer characters, fields of mistria doesn't fall into that trap, having very openly queer characters that express and talk about their queerness without any reservation (plus that tension between juniper and valen, damn!)
Noone 30.12.2024 klo 6.06 
1. I loved how robust the pronoun selection was, and i love how easy it is to access many types of hair and clothes, not to mention being able to change pronouns any time. I think it was as euphoric as I ever felt on a farming sim. It filled my heart with joy ~^-^~

2. I realized the gender spectrum I'm attracted to is people who are mean to me, especially in a town where everyone is nice. I'll bring that to therapy next time, for sure. As for the Bi-default, I think it's a bit sad because, even though the escapism "perfect world" where all love is love and equal is nice, I also feel like it robs a lot of really compelling romance hooks and a lot of the beauty that comes from queer love. Not to mention that I think it fails to give representation of lesbian and gay characters, and I'd argue even the Bi rep gets weakened.
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