Unable to find a game in zombies?

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Anyone have a fix for host configuration error / failed to join party?

Every time i start this game it suggests to do it on safe mode, if i don't choose safe mode it forces me to sit in queue without ever finding a game for some reason, the issue with this is having to do all my settings again whenever i want to play a game or 2 which wasn't a problem a few months ago when i played the game, now its either safe mode to have 50/50 chance to get into a high ping lobby or get the "Unable to join party" message.

I have Crossplay turned on and have turned it on/off multiple times which doesn't do anything, i have verified the game files and re-installed the game but not 1 "solution" i find online seems to work.

EDIT: Changing from wireless to wired connection fixed matchmaking issues, now i find games almost instantly, wireless connection however 1 out of 15-20 attempts i found a lobby.