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Like, I am not against arachnophobia mode, but this is so ignorant of a comment. Rationalizing my anxiety is exactly how I get over it.
I feel like stopping for a moment, breathing, and going like "this is just a spider in a video game, I can do this" is the first step towards getting better. I say this because I want the best for these people. ><
I understand it is hard however, and it's a big step. It was for me. I understand it's more layered than "just get over it bro", but they will never get over it with that kind of attitude. ;o
Yes, taking your own life is one of the most cowardly selfish thing a person can do. If you don’t think I haven’t had serious suicidal thoughts you’re fooling yourself. It’s because I’ve dealt with all these issues I know it’s self weakness. When I didn’t leave my house it’s because of crippling anxiety and depression, again it was my weakness that kept me down. I needed to man up and stop letting emotions control me.
A phobia is by definition an irrational fear. So if you can rationalize something to overcome the fear, then you do not have a phobia, just a plain old fear.
See what I'm saying?
Because Chronic anxiety is literally incurable.
Anxiety is litterally an irrational fear of upcoming events, leading you to perceive the worst outcome in future events. It becomes so crippling at time, that it makes you physically sick. It increases your heart rate, muscle tension, and makes you nauseous. The worst about it is, it doesn't strike just when you see a spider, it's always there.
Don't tell me I have no idea what an irrational fear is bub. I've lived 37 years of my life with an irrational fear of upcoming events. Lol.
It strikes even when you're looking ahead at positive events. Your brain will absolutely try to find the worst outcomes even in events that can't have any. ;o
And yeah, this ain't the anxiety the average people has looking ahead at a stressful event, this is on the level of a diagnosis that requires cognitive behavioral therapy.
I've learned in therapy that I can defeat that by rationalizing it. Telling myself "What are the chances that event X really turns into its worst outcome ? Almost nada". I'm simplifying it a lot, but yeah... It's been a process, but I certainly didn't defeat it by asking the world to bend around me and thinking I can't do anything about it. ><
Can't formulate a proper response? Just say "common sense"! It's a cheat code for automatically winning arguments!
In all seriousness, I understand phobias, my partner has some other phobia issues. However, neither myself or she would ask someone to do something about it in a game. The issue is this takes time, money, and development away from really big issues. We're going to live in an overly sensitive world where everything has to have every option for every mental health problem, and it's going to implode or backfire if it keeps up.
Not being mean here, maybe this game just isn't for you? This genre and theme comes with all the spiders, slimeys, etc. if you really do have a problem then please get a psychologist, etc., these things can progressively get worse mentally.
If the dev's want to, then cool, and there's nothing wrong with nicely asking either (with no expectations), it might just be the way your question was worded. Cheers
Again, I apologize for how I worded it the first time. It came off as absolutist. I'd say that "getting over it" isn't always useful, though, in the same sense of abolishing absolutism from the equation.
Very nice reply. ♥
And did you not read ANY of my other messages? I fully understand how irrational and constant anxiety is. Because guess what? I have anxiety too, and I can guarantee that I've experienced just as much anxiety as you have, though I'm not trying to compete.
I would explain certain anxiety experiences of mine, but from your message I assume you will only try to "one-up" me with a more extreme version.
I understand what you are saying, I was only trying to explain that you have ANXIETY, not a PHOBIA. I never meant to say you didn't have anxiety, nor did I mean to diminish any anxiety you do experience.
My point was simply saying that a phobia is different from anxiety, simply because a phobia cannot be rationalized.
If I did say something rude or insulting, I am truly sorry. I might've accidentally responded to you instead of someone else, since I'm holding like 3 conversations at once in this thread lol