Good server settings for 2 player co-op?

[Deathjester]

Looking for a nice balanced gameplay experience for 2 player co-op.

We don't want to spend too much grinding on stuff, but we don't want everything handed to us either, i'm mostly interested in resource gathering and how long it takes to craft/refine items/ore/etc.

I'd like it to be close to what Valheim was offering.
I've only tried this game for a little while so i'm asking opinions here instead of trial and error.

[mefisto57001]

You need to start playing with the vanilla parameters and then fine tune them according to your standards. Everything is subjective. My friend and I played on x5 and it was perfect for us since we only had time after work. Some may say that even x2 is too fast.

[Looks A Lordy]

3x is a comfortable rate for me, but like mefisto said, its really subjective. hope you find a rate you're comfortable with!