Why do they say She/Her?

[DeaconH]

Does anyone know why all the characters refer to themselves/eachother as she/her? The point of the cafe is they're crossdressing right, and they all know this even the MC. So why are all of them referred to as she/her and not he/him because they are boys, not trans

[Code x70]

it's 2024, everyone can choose their pronouns regardless of what they are

[Fapterhouse: Dune]

It's common courtesy with drag and crossdressing to refer to someone by their persona's pronouns while performing. Would you refer to Goku as 'she' solely because he's voice acted by a grandmother?

In the context of the game, since you're their boss, and you're hiring them for their attributes as crossdressing performers, it makes sense for that to be the default from a professional standpoint. It's odd that you still use it during the after-hours dates, but in the cultural context of otoko no ko, some transgender people do partake in it as something distinct from presenting their personal gender identity. Some of the writers and speakers on the subject within the community are themselves transgender but view the act itself as a different kind of gender play. Since canonically the player character can be an avid fan of otoko no ko, he may simply be hedging his bets until they tell him what they prefer.

Alternatively it might just have been easier to write. Code-switching in real conversation is already a pain in the ass, I can't imagine having to remember it for a huge cast of characters.

[Wolfberry]

some femboys are trans. might not be the intent, but yeah. gender identities are complex

[Stealthheart]

"I'm not gay" cope

[Smashmukd]

for me its alot less confusing to say she/her. since my brain automatically thinks girl when it sees what it thinks is a girl.