Me and Brother can't enter each other's servers. Please Help!

[Loki]

Every time we go to enter each others servers we either get a continuous Connecting or booted to main menu. Has anyone encountered this issue? Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you in advance.

[Leriol]

Have had no issues connecting with a remote friend, here, since buying the game.
Are you running any firewalls, vpns, or ips/ids'?

[tooie]

I had the same issue with my brother and we just ended up refunding the game. This affects some users and it has to do with the EPIC SOE packet installed on one or both of your machines. From what I gathered, you need to delete yours from your download files, then download some special SPK file from google... Fck all of that.

[Pengchon]

Theres a bug under private setting, change your game to public when loading the file.
OH you're getting boot, likely issue could related to using same steam account, or using steam under the same IP address etc.

Originally posted by Loki:

Every time we go to enter each others servers we either get a continuous Connecting or booted to main menu. Has anyone encountered this issue? Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you in advance.