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941 Mar 14, 2023 @ 4:44am
Virginia want be a friend ?
After 30hours of trying to be friend with virginia i am sick of her ...pls help! i try everythink what i can do but she still runing of me.
I was afk with nothing in hands like 2 hours
I put berries she eat but dont come to me
I build everythink like fire bench stool
Nothing help...
I save her from canibals and mutants like 15times
Finaly i put her in prison she cant escape from that place i locked her and go to her but..
SHE RUN IN THE PLACE 5 ******* HOURS
-_- just how be a frendly guy after that ?
Originally posted by Hellsmoke:
Locking her up isn't going to do it lol, you might have set yourself back by a lot.

From a fresh start:

Do not move or hold weapons around her unless you have to defend her in which case MAKE SURE you don't hit her. Afterwards put away your weapon and stand still. Never walk towards her and if she backs up, you back up as well. Let her walk around you and check you out. This will take a day or two in game before she feels comfortable around you.

You don't have to do it all in one day. You can run off if you have other things to do, just leave her be. She will most likely spawn near you and approach you the next evening at which point you repeat the steps above. Let her run around and and check you out, just stand still.

Once she feels comfortable around you she will start dancing for you and bringing gifts as well as coming really close. Once she starts doing that you can give her some clothes and a pistol. Once she no longer backs away from you at all and lets you walk up to her, give her a tracker.

Not sure if this is still going to work in your current game because I have no idea why she's still running after 30 hours, but that's how you befriend Virginia. It takes two in game days at most as of the point where you start paying attention to her.

The worst thing you can do is hit her followed by letting her get downed. Be careful fighting around her so you don't hit her.
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Hellsmoke Mar 14, 2023 @ 4:53am 
Locking her up isn't going to do it lol, you might have set yourself back by a lot.

From a fresh start:

Do not move or hold weapons around her unless you have to defend her in which case MAKE SURE you don't hit her. Afterwards put away your weapon and stand still. Never walk towards her and if she backs up, you back up as well. Let her walk around you and check you out. This will take a day or two in game before she feels comfortable around you.

You don't have to do it all in one day. You can run off if you have other things to do, just leave her be. She will most likely spawn near you and approach you the next evening at which point you repeat the steps above. Let her run around and and check you out, just stand still.

Once she feels comfortable around you she will start dancing for you and bringing gifts as well as coming really close. Once she starts doing that you can give her some clothes and a pistol. Once she no longer backs away from you at all and lets you walk up to her, give her a tracker.

Not sure if this is still going to work in your current game because I have no idea why she's still running after 30 hours, but that's how you befriend Virginia. It takes two in game days at most as of the point where you start paying attention to her.

The worst thing you can do is hit her followed by letting her get downed. Be careful fighting around her so you don't hit her.
Last edited by Hellsmoke; Mar 14, 2023 @ 4:57am
941 Mar 14, 2023 @ 5:01am 
Originally posted by Hellsmoke77:
Locking her up isn't going to do it lol, you might have set yourself back by a lot.

From a fresh start:

Do not move or hold weapons around her unless you have to defend her in which case MAKE SURE you don't hit her. Afterwards put away your weapon and stand still. Never walk towards her and if she backs up, you back up as well. Let her walk around you and check you out. This will take a day or two in game before she feels comfortable around you.

You don't have to do it all in one day. You can run off if you have other things to do, just leave her be. She will most likely spawn near you and approach you the next evening at which point you repeat the steps above. Let her run around and and check you out, just stand still.

Once she feels comfortable around you she will start dancing for you and bringing gifts as well as coming really close. Once she starts doing that you can give her some clothes and a pistol. Once she no longer backs away from you at all and lets you walk up to her, give her a tracker.

Not sure if this is still going to work in your current game because I have no idea why she's still running after day 30, but that's how you befriend Virginia. It takes two days at most as of the point where you start paying attention to her.

The worst thing you can do is hit her followed by letting her get downed. Be careful fighting around her so you don't hit her.

Thanks for the tips but i think i make that at the start game but she always run ..instead i was afk some time but i dont go back when she come to me maybe that is the point ..i will try for sure .

But i hit her lot of times at late game ?that mean she never be a friend?
Hellsmoke Mar 14, 2023 @ 5:05am 
Originally posted by 941:

But i hit her lot of times at late game ?that mean she never be a friend?

I don't know if she will never give you another chance as I haven't been in that situation but I do know that this makes her afraid of you so she'll be trying to avoid you. Not sure how long or if that fear goes away.
Don Cool Mar 14, 2023 @ 5:12am 
You don´t have to do anything, just don´t approach her, stay out of her way and she will eventually come to you. I think only one thing is required, to watch her dance once ... you do that from a distance.
941 Mar 14, 2023 @ 5:19am 
Originally posted by Don:
You don´t have to do anything, just don´t approach her, stay out of her way and she will eventually come to you. I think only one thing is required, to watch her dance once ... you do that from a distance.

Can i use binoculars for that ? And that work?
Don Cool Mar 14, 2023 @ 5:54am 
Originally posted by 941:
Originally posted by Don:
You don´t have to do anything, just don´t approach her, stay out of her way and she will eventually come to you. I think only one thing is required, to watch her dance once ... you do that from a distance.

Can i use binoculars for that ? And that work?


Keep your distance means ... 30 meters or so, she will automatically withdraw to that distance and sometimes simply run away, don´t overthink it. Just let her be in peace, don´t approach her and get on with your things.
Crunchmeister Mar 14, 2023 @ 7:55am 
Originally posted by 941:
Finaly i put her in prison she cant escape
Originally posted by 941:
But i hit her lot of times at late game ?

You hit her and locked her up. I can't see why she wouldn't instantly just love you....

Originally posted by Don:
Keep your distance means ... 30 meters or so,
Just like IRL restraining orders.
Last edited by Crunchmeister; Mar 14, 2023 @ 7:56am
Don Cool Mar 14, 2023 @ 9:56am 
Originally posted by Crunchmeister:

You hit her and locked her up. I can't see why she wouldn't instantly just love you....

It worked in 20.000 BC .... :-D
Hellsmoke Mar 14, 2023 @ 10:13am 
Originally posted by Don:
Originally posted by Crunchmeister:

You hit her and locked her up. I can't see why she wouldn't instantly just love you....

It worked in 20.000 BC .... :-D

Yeah, the good ole days. Life was simpler back then.
Crunchmeister Mar 14, 2023 @ 10:19am 
Yup. All the guys needed to get all the women was a big club.

Oh wait... that still works.
941 Mar 14, 2023 @ 11:21am 
Originally posted by Hellsmoke77:
Originally posted by 941:

But i hit her lot of times at late game ?that mean she never be a friend?

I don't know if she will never give you another chance as I haven't been in that situation but I do know that this makes her afraid of you so she'll be trying to avoid you. Not sure how long or if that fear goes away.

It works just step back when she going close thanks bro
941 Mar 14, 2023 @ 11:22am 
Originally posted by Crunchmeister:
Yup. All the guys needed to get all the women was a big club.

Oh wait... that still works.

Hahahaha still works however XD
Hellsmoke Mar 14, 2023 @ 11:23am 
Originally posted by 941:
Originally posted by Hellsmoke77:

I don't know if she will never give you another chance as I haven't been in that situation but I do know that this makes her afraid of you so she'll be trying to avoid you. Not sure how long or if that fear goes away.

It works just step back when she going close thanks bro

;)
SkyRevved May 1, 2023 @ 7:48pm 
Originally posted by Hellsmoke77:
Locking her up isn't going to do it lol, you might have set yourself back by a lot.

From a fresh start:

Do not move or hold weapons around her unless you have to defend her in which case MAKE SURE you don't hit her. Afterwards put away your weapon and stand still. Never walk towards her and if she backs up, you back up as well. Let her walk around you and check you out. This will take a day or two in game before she feels comfortable around you.

You don't have to do it all in one day. You can run off if you have other things to do, just leave her be. She will most likely spawn near you and approach you the next evening at which point you repeat the steps above. Let her run around and and check you out, just stand still.

Once she feels comfortable around you she will start dancing for you and bringing gifts as well as coming really close. Once she starts doing that you can give her some clothes and a pistol. Once she no longer backs away from you at all and lets you walk up to her, give her a tracker.

Not sure if this is still going to work in your current game because I have no idea why she's still running after 30 hours, but that's how you befriend Virginia. It takes two in game days at most as of the point where you start paying attention to her.

The worst thing you can do is hit her followed by letting her get downed. Be careful fighting around her so you don't hit her.


I accidentally hit her man, right when I spawned into the game and its been around in game 27 days or so and she still gets spooked by me and runs away even when I do absolutely nothing and hide my weapons
idkzero May 1, 2023 @ 8:18pm 
I feel like her system needs a revamp (once the rest of the game is finished). I dislike how you have to pretty much become a statue around her until she friends you, especially since my bases seem to all be enemy magnets. I feel like it'd be a lot easier if it worked the other way around where she comes to your base but you have to give her something like berries or a animal corpse.
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