YOU and ME and HER: A Love Story

YOU and ME and HER: A Love Story

Finally finished the game. Personal Thoughts (spoilers).
Okay, it took a long time, but I finally finished the game. Overall, it was good. It was detailed, and told a compelling story. It ended up being more linear than it presents itself as being. There aren't really "branching paths", like the description says. Sure, you can get a few bad endings. But the overall plot follows one specific path, with specific ways to get there. I wouldn't have minded the game giving you more real choices, that allow you to take the story in different directions. But I guess that would have gotten in the way of the story they wanted to tell.

As for the ending; I have mixed feelings about it. For the record, I chose Aoi. That being said, I feel like the overall story is definitely slanted towards Miyuki. You can achieve a happy, story book ending with Miyuki at basically any time, any route. Aoi fans can't get that. At the end of every route Aoi ends up disappearing or dying. But Miyuki always gets what she wants in some way.

Personally, after all of the horrible things that Miyuki did, I felt like she didn't really deserve a happy ending. I was hoping she would get some kind of comeuppance, but nope. Meanwhile, Aoi's biggest sin was cheating on Shinichi, which she only did so she wouldn't disappear. And consequently she ends up... disappearing. I wasn't expecting some happy ending where Shinichi, Miyuki, and Aoi all remain a happy trio for the rest of their lives. That obviously wasn't going to happen. But it would have been nice if things could have been a little more balanced. I know some people won't like me saying this but... If I'm being perfectly honest, I would have chosen to make Miyuki disappear instead of Aoi if the game had given me that choice. I guess that from a narrative standpoint you could say it makes more sense to do it the way they did, since Aoi was always more selfless, and Miyuki was more selfish. But I still don't like that Miyuki was essentially rewarded for being an evil ♥♥♥♥♥.

As for the "Aoi lives on in other heroines" thing; again, I have mixed feelings. Its not a bad idea, but less satisfying if you want Aoi as she is here, and not a reincarnation (for lack of a better term) of Aoi.

Anyone else agree or disagree?
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Fawx72 Jul 18, 2020 @ 11:13pm 
Interesting take, I see what you're saying. I chose Miyuki in the end and for me I know she did some messed up stuff and that's fair to go against her for that. However, as the player we kinda screwed her over in more ways that one, with the Aoi recode dooming her to never being happy without Shinichi, and doubly so after you go on the Aoi route and do what you did.

I saw it as she never really got a fair chance from the get go. Aoi...well I felt bad for not choosing her, but at the same time can't reconcile the whole NTR thing.

You're right Aoi doesn't get a fair shake of the stick, but I don't think anyone really does. I haven't looked up the Aoi ending, because I feel like I have to stick to the choice I made.
El Canal Weaboo Jul 18, 2020 @ 11:18pm 
Eternal Love is for one time. I cheated on Miyuki by restarting the game to get Aoi's route, and everything that the game does is for YOU, to realized what you have done. You get into Shiniichi character to make choices he would never make, you give him signals, you make him ignore things that he cares to get into Aoi's ♥♥♥♥♥, even after she told you in the first minute what she is, you get into a lie by a selfish desire to get CG for the sake of your lust.

I did everything wrong, i push Aoi to get Miyuki brainwashed to get in love with me, even after i knew i was cheating and making Shiniichi act strange, i keep going, even when Miyuki said before that "Eternal Love is for one time" several times in Aoi's route. She warned me, but i didn't it.

I choose Miyuki because at the end, i stoled her happiness, i stole his lover, i make her suffer and know things she never in the first place had to, i couldn't satisfies her, i couldn't touch her, i felt gulty, the only thing she need was Shiniichi, i was a outsider crashing into the game and asuming i had nothing to worry about.

I took it very seriously, Miyuki is to atonish my sins, and she was willing to forgive it, so my gift to her was her ending. She can be happy now, we my cross path agains? I don't know, i won't touch the game again, i have a personal memento to never forget Sone Miyuki.

Best VN i've had read, and i read a lot of things in the VN media.
WanderingSilver Jul 19, 2020 @ 12:38am 
Okay, I'll try responding to these posts, and explaining why I feel this way. First, I'll just say that I understand why some people feel they wanted to choose Miyuki, or even feel some kind of obligation. I get it. I don't agree with it, but I get it. I can respect people making that choice.

That being said... Here's the thing; I never wanted to pursue Miyuki romantically. Never. Not even in the first route. I was fine having her as a platonic friend, but wasn't interested in a relationship with her (she's really not my type). If the game had given me the option, I would have pursued Aoi from the start. I tried to pursue her in the first route, picking the options that I thought might achieve that. But nope. I eventually realized that I was being railroaded onto Miyuki's route, whether I wanted it or not. The only possible way for me to romance Aoi was to romance Miyuki first. That wasn't my choice, that's how the game was designed. So, I tried to make lemons into lemonade. During the whole "domestic bliss" scenes with Miyuki, I kept thinking "I wish this was Aoi instead". Yes, even during the sex scene.

As for the "curse"? I'll just say that when that scene came up, I knew it was going to lead to something bad. I actually picked the "stop her" option the first time. I played that as far as it would go. Which wasn't very far. It led to Shinichi alone and miserable, and Aoi disappearing (as always). Which meant that if I wanted to progress any further, and not feel like I wasted my time and money, then I needed to reload and make the other choice, despite knowing it was wrong. Again, this isn't really a choice the game gives you. It is the illusion of choice, but its actually the game's way of telling you that there is only one real path you can take. No deviations.

So, yeah. I'm not going to feel guilty about stuff that wasn't my fault, and I had no real choice in. I never wanted to curse Miyuki. I never wanted to pursue Miyuki. But the game said I had to if I wanted to get to Aoi ( or even just play the damn game at all). So, there it is.

As for the cheating thing... I forgave Aoi. I was initially surprised, and a little hurt by it. But I wasn't nearly as mad about it as Shinichi was, and forgave her easily. I understood why she did it. And, if I'm being perfectly honest, I'm not entirely opposed to the idea of an open relationship. I'm sure some people will hate me for saying that.
Fawx72 Jul 19, 2020 @ 12:59am 
@WanderingSilver

I get you man, and that's a fair point to make. I initially got the bad end as well with the changing and recoding option.

I unfortunately played the game knowing what would happen (I was spoiled before the english release) and even then I gravitated towards Miyuki.

Now I also agree with you when you said you forgave Aoi faster than Shinichi. I actually hated the whole setup they did with the birthday party to entrap her.

Technically Aoi is just a representation of all VN heroines so no matter what choice you go with you're choosing Aoi. However, I'm not going to argue that route, I understand as a player you are forcibly blocked from choosing something you want. That still goes with the theme of the game that WE as the player will make choices that can belittle the characters.

I think a lot of people would actually understand you on the open relationship thing. I forgave Aoi too, but i still felt conflicted, I wish there was a way to have them both but that defeats the whole purpose.

Thanks for sharing your perspective
WanderingSilver Jul 19, 2020 @ 7:40am 
Originally posted by Fawx72:
@WanderingSilver

Technically Aoi is just a representation of all VN heroines so no matter what choice you go with you're choosing Aoi.

I kind of wonder about that. Is she really meant to be every female character in a visual novel? I kind of feel like that wouldn't entirely make sense, for various reasons. Even in this specific game, its made clear that Miyuki is different from Aoi. Not just their personalities but their very natures. In her diary, Miyuki says "unlike Aoi, I'm human, so I don't require energy to exist". This makes it clear that unlike Aoi, Miyuki is not an "avatar of god". Miyuki is something separate from Aoi.

I think what they were tryingto say with Aoi is that she has the potential to be any heroine, but is only one specific character in a game. At one point she says "Aoi has been many different girls, in many different games. But Aoi never changes." I took this to mean that while her form may change, she won't have a completely different personality. Her specific quirks may be different, but she will still be fundamentally the same. But its open to interpretation I guess.

Originally posted by Fawx72:
@WanderingSilver

I actually hated the whole setup they did with the birthday party to entrap her.

Yeah, me too.
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Pay Child Suport Jul 23, 2020 @ 6:02am 
I'm sure some people will hate me for saying that.

so you like heroines NTR-ing you?

personally there are lines that should never be crossed. no matter how guilty or how much they regretted it. once they tasted the bad apple, they will know its actually pleasurable even if poisonous and they'll do it again. sorry but that's not a poison I'm willing to taste.
WanderingSilver Jul 23, 2020 @ 2:07pm 
Originally posted by Tentacle Grape:
I'm sure some people will hate me for saying that.

so you like heroines NTR-ing you?

personally there are lines that should never be crossed. no matter how guilty or how much they regretted it. once they tasted the bad apple, they will know its actually pleasurable even if poisonous and they'll do it again. sorry but that's not a poison I'm willing to taste.

First of all, there were extenuating circumstances. It was made clear that she wasn't just cheating for fun. She needed to do it, otherwise she would disappear from the world, and lose her memories, and everyone would forget her too. Under those extreme conditions, I think many people would do the same.

Secondly, whatever Aoi did, what Miyuki did was still, in my book, way worse. I'm not just talking about that one scene. But also all of the other things too. Miyuki basically became a monster, doing horrible things for selfish reasons. I don't know how people say that Aoi cheating was unforgivable, but then say they're okay with Miyuki after everything. But that's just my personal perspective.

Also, I don't have a problem with "open relationships" as long as you're being honest and have permission. But maybe I'm just weird for thinking that murder and torture is worse than fornication.
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WanderingSilver Jul 23, 2020 @ 6:10pm 
To be clear, I can understand why some people choose Miyuki. I just personally have a negative opinion of her. But to each their own.
El Canal Weaboo Jul 23, 2020 @ 11:02pm 
Originally posted by WanderingSilver:
To be clear, I can understand why some people choose Miyuki. I just personally have a negative opinion of her. But to each their own.

I thin that negative opinion will change, because even if you teach love to Aoi, you have to remember that Aoi is and represent, teaching her love is what you do in other VN all the time.
WanderingSilver Jul 24, 2020 @ 3:56pm 
Originally posted by Sone Miyuki:
Originally posted by WanderingSilver:
To be clear, I can understand why some people choose Miyuki. I just personally have a negative opinion of her. But to each their own.

I thin that negative opinion will change, because even if you teach love to Aoi, you have to remember that Aoi is and represent, teaching her love is what you do in other VN all the time.


Well, I don't know if you've seen the Aoi ending or not, but that ending does address this to an extant. The ending implies that her experiences in this game had a permanent effect on her. Whether you choose to go along with that is up to you.

As for Miyuki; again, I can understand why some like her, even after the reveal. But personally, I was never able to fully forgive her for the things she did. Especially since she never faced any real consequences for her actions, and yet Aoi had to suffer so much.
El Canal Weaboo Jul 24, 2020 @ 10:20pm 
Why Miyuki has to pay something? I mean, WE put her in that mode in the first place by letting Aoi patch the game, we then betray her eternal love promise, and even the fact she was trying to make us remember not one, but many times during Aoi's route, you keep going into NTR ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

"But she killed Aoi and Shinichii", in the first place, Aoi wasn't meant to be there in the first place, that's her first interaction with us and even if you choose her, what is the point, i will play Hoshi Ori Yume Mirai and the concept of Aoi will be there, teaching what is love from our stupid perspective.

Miyuki represent something even more personal than just if you love NTR or not, but, do you really mean your words and decision at the end or they're empty words? I took very seriously what her deals is, of course there's a bias, because the game and the directing is trying to give us a second chance to make the right call this time, even Miyuki do it by letting you play with her. Even if you don't go for the true ending, after 10 damm years, she will send you a messange.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zq3C942zSTM

If you really want an Aoi's version of what Miyuki did, then you're out of your mind.
WanderingSilver Jul 24, 2020 @ 11:54pm 
Originally posted by Sone Miyuki:
Why Miyuki has to pay something? I mean, WE put her in that mode in the first place by letting Aoi patch the game, we then betray her eternal love promise, and even the fact she was trying to make us remember not one, but many times during Aoi's route, you keep going into NTR ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

Okay, look man. You prefer Miyuki? That's fine. You love Miyuki? That's fine too. You can feel however you want. But so can I, and anyone else. I'm willing to respect your opinion, as long as you respect mine. But if you aren't going to respect my opinion, then don't expect me to respect yours.

Everyone has their own personal reasons for the choices they make. That's true for any game with choices, including this one. So, don't try to tell me that I'm "wrong" for choosing Aoi, because I will never agree with that. I mean, it was always clear from your name and avatar what your position was, and that's fine. But at this point it seems like you just can't accept the fact that some people prefer Aoi over Miyuki. You can go on all you want about your personal feelings, and what you think you were "supposed" to do. Those aren't my feelings though. Its obvious that we have very different perspectives on the story, and the characters, and will never see eye to eye.



Originally posted by Blegchk:
Originally posted by WanderingSilver:

As for Miyuki; again, I can understand why some like her, even after the reveal. But personally, I was never able to fully forgive her for the things she did. Especially since she never faced any real consequences for her actions, and yet Aoi had to suffer so much.

(And yet again, despite her already breaking the 4th wall, Miyuki's the one who gets a whole segment dedicated surrounding it in such intricate manners, while again, Aoi doesn't get hardly anything CLOSE to this DESPITE being the, if you will, initial wall breaker.)

They put Aoi through a lot, and yet Miyuki suffers the least consequence (especially when considering that most people will choose Miyuki, out of the fact that she's a Yandere, because they feel more guilty for her somehow, or simply because they didn't like Aoi (and imho, for the most surface level and or shallowest of reasons. But this is just me), made even worse when you consider even if they didn't like Miyuki, I've seen some STILL prefer her over Aoi.

Yeah, Miyuki getting that whole section while Aoi gets nothing like that was kind of ♥♥♥♥♥♥. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that i would have wanted a "yandere" segment with Aoi. But it would have been nice to be able to spend more time with her, to balance out the large amount of time you have to spend with Miyuki, whether you want to or not.

As for guilt; I found it very difficult, if not impossible, to feel bad for Miyuki after a certain point. I understand she was put into an unfortunate position, but that still doesn't change the fact that she did evil things without repercussion. Her biggest complaint was that she could "never be truly happy". Well, that applies to many people. Few people get to be "truly happy" in life. I can sort of sympathize with her feeling like she had no choice in that. But there's a saying: ♥♥♥♥♥♥ lives don't excuse ♥♥♥♥♥♥ actions. And her life wasn't even really ♥♥♥♥♥♥, just unsatisfying. Personally, after a certain point I just really wanted to see her get comeuppance. At the very least, it would have been nice to crack her over the head with the bat, just once, as payback. Obviously, I was a lot less forgiving of her than the game wanted me to be.

As for most people preferring Miyuki; I don't know about that. I've seen a fair number of people say they choose Aoi. Me preferring Aoi isn't about fetishes, or wanting to get cg's, or anything like that. I prefer Aoi over Miyuki because Aoi is generally a better person, a more fun and likeable character, and more selfless and willing to give up things for others' benefit. Which doesn't mean Aoi is flawless, but her flaws pale in comparison to Miyuki's plethora of flaws.

But I'm not going to waste time trying to convince anyone that Aoi is better. Like I said, its a personal choice, and what is right for one person won't always be right for someone else. This game is a love story, but you get to decide what kind of love story it is. You can choose to stop playing after the first route if you want (and I know a few people have done that). Or, you can decide that you're fine with living with Miyuki in the time loop. Or, you can decide that this story is about "saving" Miyuki, and go that route. And yes, you can also choose Aoi, defying everything (particularly Miyuki) pushing you away from that. The thing is, you can get a happy ending with Miyuki at any point in the game. But you have to fight a lot harder to get anything resembling a happy ending with Aoi. I think she was worth fighting for, I just wish there was more of a reward. You can even debate whether its even a happy ending.

I feel like Miyuki fans had a lot to be satisfied with in this game, but Aoi fans got relatively shafted. My personal interpretation of the story, is that miyuki is the antagonist. She doesn't start off that way of course. But she definitely becomes it. Maybe that isn't entirely her fault. But at some point I feel like you need to take responsibility for your own actions, instead of always blaming others. At the end, Aoi admitted she made a mistake, and made sure to undo it, even at the cost to herself. Which, to me, proves that she was the better person. For me, the game eventually became about "saving" Aoi, in one form or another.
Fawx72 Jul 25, 2020 @ 2:13am 
You know @WanderingSilver and @Blegchk make some good points. Aoi really doesn't get a moment to shine as much as Miyuki does in the game. I do feel like a lot of the game centers around Aoi though, or maybe she is the central cause to everything?

I also kinda feel like my choice with Miyuki is kinda textbook Stockholm Syndrome lol. This is why I love this game, I like seeing how different people's choices and justifications were.

I still feel so damn conflicted over some of the choices even now after I've completed it.
El Canal Weaboo Jul 25, 2020 @ 9:15am 
Originally posted by WanderingSilver:
Originally posted by Sone Miyuki:
Why Miyuki has to pay something? I mean, WE put her in that mode in the first place by letting Aoi patch the game, we then betray her eternal love promise, and even the fact she was trying to make us remember not one, but many times during Aoi's route, you keep going into NTR ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.

Okay, look man. You prefer Miyuki? That's fine. You love Miyuki? That's fine too. You can feel however you want. But so can I, and anyone else. I'm willing to respect your opinion, as long as you respect mine. But if you aren't going to respect my opinion, then don't expect me to respect yours.

Everyone has their own personal reasons for the choices they make. That's true for any game with choices, including this one. So, don't try to tell me that I'm "wrong" for choosing Aoi, because I will never agree with that. I mean, it was always clear from your name and avatar what your position was, and that's fine. But at this point it seems like you just can't accept the fact that some people prefer Aoi over Miyuki. You can go on all you want about your personal feelings, and what you think you were "supposed" to do. Those aren't my feelings though. Its obvious that we have very different perspectives on the story, and the characters, and will never see eye to eye.



Originally posted by Blegchk:

(And yet again, despite her already breaking the 4th wall, Miyuki's the one who gets a whole segment dedicated surrounding it in such intricate manners, while again, Aoi doesn't get hardly anything CLOSE to this DESPITE being the, if you will, initial wall breaker.)

They put Aoi through a lot, and yet Miyuki suffers the least consequence (especially when considering that most people will choose Miyuki, out of the fact that she's a Yandere, because they feel more guilty for her somehow, or simply because they didn't like Aoi (and imho, for the most surface level and or shallowest of reasons. But this is just me), made even worse when you consider even if they didn't like Miyuki, I've seen some STILL prefer her over Aoi.

Yeah, Miyuki getting that whole section while Aoi gets nothing like that was kind of ♥♥♥♥♥♥. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that i would have wanted a "yandere" segment with Aoi. But it would have been nice to be able to spend more time with her, to balance out the large amount of time you have to spend with Miyuki, whether you want to or not.

As for guilt; I found it very difficult, if not impossible, to feel bad for Miyuki after a certain point. I understand she was put into an unfortunate position, but that still doesn't change the fact that she did evil things without repercussion. Her biggest complaint was that she could "never be truly happy". Well, that applies to many people. Few people get to be "truly happy" in life. I can sort of sympathize with her feeling like she had no choice in that. But there's a saying: ♥♥♥♥♥♥ lives don't excuse ♥♥♥♥♥♥ actions. And her life wasn't even really ♥♥♥♥♥♥, just unsatisfying. Personally, after a certain point I just really wanted to see her get comeuppance. At the very least, it would have been nice to crack her over the head with the bat, just once, as payback. Obviously, I was a lot less forgiving of her than the game wanted me to be.

As for most people preferring Miyuki; I don't know about that. I've seen a fair number of people say they choose Aoi. Me preferring Aoi isn't about fetishes, or wanting to get cg's, or anything like that. I prefer Aoi over Miyuki because Aoi is generally a better person, a more fun and likeable character, and more selfless and willing to give up things for others' benefit. Which doesn't mean Aoi is flawless, but her flaws pale in comparison to Miyuki's plethora of flaws.

But I'm not going to waste time trying to convince anyone that Aoi is better. Like I said, its a personal choice, and what is right for one person won't always be right for someone else. This game is a love story, but you get to decide what kind of love story it is. You can choose to stop playing after the first route if you want (and I know a few people have done that). Or, you can decide that you're fine with living with Miyuki in the time loop. Or, you can decide that this story is about "saving" Miyuki, and go that route. And yes, you can also choose Aoi, defying everything (particularly Miyuki) pushing you away from that. The thing is, you can get a happy ending with Miyuki at any point in the game. But you have to fight a lot harder to get anything resembling a happy ending with Aoi. I think she was worth fighting for, I just wish there was more of a reward. You can even debate whether its even a happy ending.

I feel like Miyuki fans had a lot to be satisfied with in this game, but Aoi fans got relatively shafted. My personal interpretation of the story, is that miyuki is the antagonist. She doesn't start off that way of course. But she definitely becomes it. Maybe that isn't entirely her fault. But at some point I feel like you need to take responsibility for your own actions, instead of always blaming others. At the end, Aoi admitted she made a mistake, and made sure to undo it, even at the cost to herself. Which, to me, proves that she was the better person. For me, the game eventually became about "saving" Aoi, in one form or another.

Just like your chices have meaning, your opinions too, and i won't just let put still to see anyone treating Miyuki so badly, even after half a game put Aoi as the center of the universe. I'm not satisfied with the ending, a hell of a girl fall in love with me from a dimension i can't even touch or feel forgive my mistakes after all the damage i done and now she didn't even remember us after the True ending, how in the heck is that calling "Satisfied"?

Also please, define better person, i can say the same of Miyuki before patch when she helped a lot Aoi, and even that is just our making more than Miyuki or Aoi feelings.

As you say, yes, i love Miyuki, she's my fav character in fiction, by personality, what is Miyuki and what she represents in the context of ToToNo. I will defend her everytime i can, why? Because as i read your word, i don't agree with anything with you say and i won't stop.
WanderingSilver Jul 25, 2020 @ 10:23am 
Right. Like I said, we'll never see eye to eye. We have different perspectives. Although, I will just say that as far "Being a better person" I will point out that Miyuki rejected Aoi from the start, and never wanted to be her friend. She repeatedly gave Aoi the cold shoulder, and only agreed to be friendly with Aoi after Shinichi practically begged her. Nonetheless, I actually did sort of like Miyuki in the first route, and even come to sympathize with her. But that changed later on.

Originally posted by Blegchk:
I agree with the two posts above me, as expected.

Overall, some things fall flat if Miyuki isn't even your first thought/want/go-to. I stand by this as the game's one glaring flaw: Your first decision/playthrough, and or Aoi's backburner stance in the far latter half of the story.

Yeah, I feel that the story would have had more weight if it had been an actual choice. Like, if yu had actually been able to choose Aoi first. So then, if you choose Miyuki first, but then dod a second route with Aoi, then it would feel more genuine, since that would be an actual choice that you made instead of something you were forced to do. Of course, that would have made things more complicated. Like, if someone chooses Aoi first, and then plays Miyuki's route second, then what happens? Would there still be some dark twist? I don't think it would have made sense to go the "yandere" route with Aoi, so it would have had to be something different. Like, maybe Aoi becomes depressed/suicidal, and you can't bring her back after that? I don't know.

Maybe they didn't have the time or money for that. Or, maybe that just wasn't the story they wanted to tell. Like I said before: despite appearances, this is not a "choose your own adventure" game as it is. It tells one specific story, in one specific order. Even at the end of the game, the game makes a lot of assumptions about the player's thoughts and feelings. Sort of reminds me of Spec Ops: The Line, where the game berates you for choosing to do something horrible, even thought that was the only thing you could do to progress the game any further.

And yeah, I feel like Miyuki gets off too easily, and is given too much focus over Aoi. She almost feels like what tv tropes calls a creator's pet: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/CreatorsPet

She isn't necessarily hated by the fans, but otherwise seems to fit.
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