Help with Solas Romance

[Silvaras]

Im stuck in Solas Romance can someone help

I did kiss him in Fade did his quest but when i trigger balcony scene i dont get the kiss option.
I did not flirt with anyone else or locked myself im pretty far on main quest too .

[Metallicus]

I have read that you can only romance him as a female elf. I am a guy so I never tried this route or I would help more.

[Silvaras]

I am female elf

[Desert Orchid 1]

Originally posted by Silvaras:

Im stuck in Solas Romance can someone help

I did kiss him in Fade did his quest but when i trigger balcony scene i dont get the kiss option.
I did not flirt with anyone else or locked myself im pretty far on main quest too .

To romance Solas, an intelligent elf Mage, whom you can only romance if your character is an elven female.

how to tho:

To gain Approval with Solas, approach him in Haven as soon as you are able to move freely. He will express his concern that the Inquisition will arrest him for being an apostate mage. Reassure him by selecting the romance option "You can trust me."

When he compares himself to you, you have three options. Select "I am a true elf." The other two options will lose Approval. Then choose "We are trying. Accept that."

Maintain an open mind about blood magic, exploring the Fade and his life as an elf, but not as a Dalish.

When the opportunity arises, select the romance option "I enjoy getting to know you."

Choosing Between the Templars and the Mages:

you must:

Ally with the mages, or
Disband the Templars

If you ally with the Templars or conscript the mages, Solas will greatly disapprove

activate the side quest "Measuring the Veil". Take him with you on your adventures, and he will announce when he senses a nearby artifact.

You will gain some Approval from Solas every time you activate an artifact

Skyhold:

He worries that elves will be blamed for the state of things. Since your character is an elf, his attitude becomes less "my people" and more "our people". Respond with "They'll blame us eventually" for approval.

Keep talking to Solas in Skyhold when you can, and he will ask you to speak with him alone. You'll return to Haven, where he'll talk about first meeting you. Respond with "You care about me?" where you'll be able to kiss him.

Cementing the Romance:

Talk to Solas again and select:

"That was incredible."
"I'm sorry."
"I'll risk it."

Solas' next personal quest, "All New, Faded for Her" will appear. Travel to the Exalted Plains and complete the quest, choosing to release the demon. In the final dialogue, select "You did all you could" .

Solas returns to Skyhold, say "I'm here for you."

Solas will soon ask to speak to you alone. He questions his previous opinions on the Dalish; select "No. I am who I am." Solas will confess that he hasn't forgotten the kiss. Respond with "neither have I."

[Silvaras]

Found the problem i took grey wardens to inqusition thats why Solas didnt romanced me rolled back before grey warden castle siege quest and could kiss Solas on balcony well i losted 6 hours of gameplay but its better than star over

[Desert Orchid 1]

Originally posted by Silvaras:

Found the problem i took grey wardens to inqusition thats why Solas didnt romanced me rolled back before grey warden castle siege quest and could kiss Solas on balcony well i losted 6 hours of gameplay but its better than star over

He has the best romace/interaction in the game with DLC