The Sims™ 4

The Sims™ 4

SnootSocks Nov 11, 2022 @ 2:13pm
Can not make friends
I am just recently having an issue where any interaction and I mean ANY causes negative interaction. I can not make any friends and everyone is always angry with me. I do friendly introduction or anything friendly and it is all negative. I basically can not progress to get friends or romantic relationships. Any solutions?
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Lady Aeleanor Nov 11, 2022 @ 2:23pm 
The angry interactions are caused by a bug from the 2nd last update. When the Loyalty Trait was introduced with that update, it had a negative effect on Autonomous Friendship Interactions. You can use MC Command Center to turn off Autonomous Mean Interactions. If you do a Forum search, there are a few dozen threads on here, that outline how to use it.
Mokum Nov 11, 2022 @ 2:28pm 
i found this earlyer on this forum it may help credits go to the original poster
myself have not tested yet so i dont know if works

"I Found a FIXED to sims being mean bug... it's under Gameplay menu. Go to Game Option > Gameplay menu > check the box Traditional Social Menu.
This will revert back the way sims interact with each other by prioritizing friendly interaction over Random interaction.

What happen right now is if this is unchecked the sims will randomly choosing interaction without using their brain cell like EA. including being mean, funny and mischieve.

This does not prevent other sims who are already angry to being mean to your sims or sims caught their partner cheating or something."

credits to chuamishael

Last edited by Mokum; Nov 11, 2022 @ 2:31pm
chuamishael Nov 11, 2022 @ 8:52pm 
Originally posted by SnootSocks:
I am just recently having an issue where any interaction and I mean ANY causes negative interaction. I can not make any friends and everyone is always angry with me. I do friendly introduction or anything friendly and it is all negative. I basically can not progress to get friends or romantic relationships. Any solutions?

Another solution, use your camera or phone camera, then take a photo of the sims. then spam it until friendship is max. this is almost like magic, but it's pretty handy.
Mokum Nov 11, 2022 @ 11:34pm 
having a tiny house (with the tiny house Lot type from the pack) friend and love goe up way faster also if on the lot
SnootSocks Nov 12, 2022 @ 7:24pm 
Thank you all for this help, I do have bigger homes on the last two saves I have tried, I will also attempt to alter those interactions.
luZk Nov 13, 2022 @ 7:50pm 
Originally posted by Mokum:
having a tiny house (with the tiny house Lot type from the pack) friend and love goe up way faster also if on the lot

Ahahahah we just got EA'ed, game is unplayable without packs. Just started a game with a household of 3, they all hate eachother after just one day together.

I am guessing as long as this "bug" is making people buy more expansion packs they wont be in a hurry to fix this anytime soon.
Last edited by luZk; Nov 13, 2022 @ 8:12pm
SnootSocks Nov 15, 2022 @ 1:58pm 
Originally posted by luZk:
Originally posted by Mokum:
having a tiny house (with the tiny house Lot type from the pack) friend and love goe up way faster also if on the lot

Ahahahah we just got EA'ed, game is unplayable without packs. Just started a game with a household of 3, they all hate eachother after just one day together.

I am guessing as long as this "bug" is making people buy more expansion packs they wont be in a hurry to fix this anytime soon.


That makes sense... but in my head because of the issue I do not want to give them more money, they do not deserve my $$ until it is fixed. Haha.

I did find the MCCC mod (I learned about it form a tiktok live) I downloaded it, and if I use the computer in my home, to open the MC window and disable mean it seems to at least allow some positive. On occasion the Romance fails but it appears to be a bit better (for the moment).
Nost Nov 15, 2022 @ 10:39pm 
You can report the issue here supposedly it's going to be fixed soon but, who knows with EA :/
https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/OPEN-Autonomous-Insulting-Patch-1-92-145/td-p/11932091/highlight/false/page/96
Last edited by Nost; Nov 15, 2022 @ 10:39pm
XTS Nov 16, 2022 @ 9:30pm 
I was wondering what was going on. This thread was helpful. :104:
Jenn Nov 17, 2022 @ 12:21am 
This should hopefully not be an issue for much longer. EA/Maxis announced that an 'express' update for the game would be released on Nov 17 that should correct the mean Sims bug. Hopefully it works and players will not run into this issue anymore.
XTS Nov 17, 2022 @ 3:42pm 
:D That's today. X fingers for us all ♥
MisterRed Nov 17, 2022 @ 4:05pm 
Originally posted by XTS:
:D That's today. X fingers for us all ♥
They delayed it until early december. You'd think EA would have a better Quality assurance team, or at least beta testers considering how much they monetize the game. https://twitter.com/TheSimsDirect/status/1593317763509997568
XTS Nov 17, 2022 @ 4:39pm 
Originally posted by MisterRed:
Originally posted by XTS:
:D That's today. X fingers for us all ♥
They delayed it until early december. You'd think EA would have a better Quality assurance team, or at least beta testers considering how much they monetize the game. https://twitter.com/TheSimsDirect/status/1593317763509997568

awww nawww
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2833954729

Well, hopefully they'll do a good job with it. I know a lot of people have been waiting a bit already.

Thanks for letting us know MisterRed :heartthrob:
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Date Posted: Nov 11, 2022 @ 2:13pm
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