Ways to make our CK3 experience more enjoyable

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I watched this video today:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DAyhED93uHM

The video inspired me to write a comment about how I make my CK3 experience more enjoyable:

When I play CK3, I set myself personal challenges, e.g.

I try to only fight defensive wars & wage wars of conquest only against rulers who have attacked me or who have waged wars of aggression against others, so I can end their harmful behaviour & replace them with an honourable ruler (me 😇 ),
I try to bring everyone in my house back to my court, I try to rescue all of my house members from prison,
I try to betroth older teenagers to other older teenagers if they have mutual crushes,
I try to only ally with factions that are led by leaders who won't drag me into wars of aggression,
I attend every wedding, feast & tournament that I can & go on pilgrimages & university visits (taking detours to visit plenty of beneficial locations) but I never go on hunts because I don't support the killing of innocent living creatures,
I try to make my religion include vegetarianism,
I hybridise my culture to make it include easy hybridisation (from Norse culture) as well as chivalry, longbows & boardgaming,
I play boardgames & write poems as often as I can,
I try to nonviolently get rid of courtiers who have traits I dislike (e.g. sadistic),
I recruit characters to my court who are giants, intelligent, etc. & I try to marry them to each other to develop a multi-generational court of skilled people....

What do you do to make your CK3 experience more enjoyable?