Help! I made a promise and forgot to whom

[Jude Dion]

My king-character made a promise to a vassal but I completely forgot to whom. All I remember is that he was male (doesn't help much, I know). What do I do? Is there a way to review my promises? Or is my character doomed to infamy for breaking a pledge?

[Kimlin]

Promise for what? If it was just a hook they’ll use it to be in the council or change their contract.

[Half-lidded Bruiser]

Play the tutorial.

[ShepherdOfCats]

Are you talking about when someone asks you to do something like host a feast within 10 years or declare a holy war within 6 months?

AFAIK there's no way to look to see who you made those kinds of promises to, except when you fail to meet them (obviously when it is too late).

Usually it is some old fart asking me to do that stuff, although I once had a vassal ask me to host a feast within 10 years and I was only 3 years old, and that wasn't gonna work. (I'd be 13 and still unable to call for a feast as a child)

[Jude Dion]

Originally posted by ShepherdOfCats:

Are you talking about when someone asks you to do something like host a feast within 10 years or declare a holy war within 6 months?

The details are blurry to me, but AFAI can remember I promised a direct vassal of mine a holding owned by either another direct vassal of mine or a vassal of his.

[Wan Yao]

Originally posted by Jude Dion:

Originally posted by ShepherdOfCats:

Are you talking about when someone asks you to do something like host a feast within 10 years or declare a holy war within 6 months?

The details are blurry to me, but AFAI can remember I promised a direct vassal of mine a holding owned by either another direct vassal of mine or a vassal of his.

That doesn't make sense. I've never seen an event that fits that description. Did you promise to go to war with someone to press his claim? That's a thing. In any event, in these kinds of situations the worst that will happen is a relations penalty or, if they're unlanded and you fail to press their claim, they'll leave your court.