How to deal with never-ending one-sided house feuds?

[Saihai]

I'm repeatedly getting multiple house feuds declared against my house, but my house never gets the 'in a feud' buff/status...thus more houses start a feud with me. I am currently down to two feuds against me after some prior houses 'won' (no house debuff for me since I was never in the feud to begin with...just a lot of dead house members).

Of course, since their house is always winning (I cannot gain points since I am not feuding with them!), they never stop the feud until they get the biggest possible buff or every house member is killed. It is getting really annoying.

[Emperor2000]

Originally posted by Saihai:

I'm repeatedly getting multiple house feuds declared against my house, but my house never gets the 'in a feud' buff/status...thus more houses start a feud with me. I am currently down to two feuds against me after some prior houses 'won' (no house debuff for me since I was never in the feud to begin with...just a lot of dead house members).

Of course, since their house is always winning (I cannot gain points since I am not feuding with them!), they never stop the feud until they get the biggest possible buff or every house member is killed. It is getting really annoying.

Disable Friends & Foes, the House Feuds should go away, unless of course the Devs have added them with T&T too, then you need to disable T&T too.

But House Feuds are DLC content, so if you disable the right DLC, they should go away, then save the Game(after some time, a year or better 3 years), exit the Game, enable the DLC again and you now should be able to play the game without, every 60 seconds of murder schemes.

[Kimlin]

Originally posted by Saihai:

I'm repeatedly getting multiple house feuds declared against my house, but my house never gets the 'in a feud' buff/status...thus more houses start a feud with me. I am currently down to two feuds against me after some prior houses 'won' (no house debuff for me since I was never in the feud to begin with...just a lot of dead house members).

Of course, since their house is always winning (I cannot gain points since I am not feuding with them!), they never stop the feud until they get the biggest possible buff or every house member is killed. It is getting really annoying.

Are you using mods? What you are describing is what most people whine about with Friend and Foes (house members dying) . Not being able to participate in the feud isn't something I have experienced.

[Jet]

yup thats just how badly paradox designed them. its a damn shame

[Razorblade]

Mods? I've never been in a non-mutual feud before; that's supposed to be impossible.

[dbix11]

My .02 is that feuds are OK if they make sense, I hate it when the feud is still going on 3 generations down the line 1000 miles away because my great great great grandma cheated on her husband with a lustful dwarf

[Emperor2000]

Originally posted by dbix11:

My .02 is that feuds are OK if they make sense, I hate it when the feud is still going on 3 generations down the line 1000 miles away because my great great great grandma cheated on her husband with a lustful dwarf

No, they are not, you should watch Steinwallen's Let's Plays, the actual Etichonen and the La Tour du Pin and you will see how bad House Feuds are.

[dbix11]

Originally posted by Emperor2000:

Originally posted by dbix11:

My .02 is that feuds are OK if they make sense, I hate it when the feud is still going on 3 generations down the line 1000 miles away because my great great great grandma cheated on her husband with a lustful dwarf

No, they are not, you should watch Steinwallen's Let's Plays, the actual Etichonen and the La Tour du Pin and you will see how bad House Feuds are.

They make sense for the present time and even the second generation but after that unless the two rulers are in close proximity it doesnt really make sense which is why i stated:

Originally posted by Emperor2000:

Originally posted by dbix11:

feuds are OK if they make sense,

[Jet]

Originally posted by Razorblade:

Mods? I've never been in a non-mutual feud before; that's supposed to be impossible.

naw just finish a feud and eventually another house will feud you. you cant feud them back until the modifier is up after 25 years. U can facilitate the end of the feud by still killing and c uking their dynasts, but you wont get the notification that you are in a feud. Not in current situation log or in your dynasty screen, only the modifier for having already defeated or lost a feud. Again you can technically end it faster by scoring against them but you wont know know who is beefing with your house until A) they strike at you and you waste a slot to pin them, or B) are house head and go to your rivals. Their house head should be your nemesis most like

[Saihai]

Originally posted by Kimlin:

Originally posted by Saihai:

I'm repeatedly getting multiple house feuds declared against my house, but my house never gets the 'in a feud' buff/status...thus more houses start a feud with me. I am currently down to two feuds against me after some prior houses 'won' (no house debuff for me since I was never in the feud to begin with...just a lot of dead house members).

Of course, since their house is always winning (I cannot gain points since I am not feuding with them!), they never stop the feud until they get the biggest possible buff or every house member is killed. It is getting really annoying.

Are you using mods? What you are describing is what most people whine about with Friend and Foes (house members dying) . Not being able to participate in the feud isn't something I have experienced.

No mods, this is an ironman achievement run for the t&t achievements

[ƬᗩԲԲվ]

I lost a feud after executing every last member of their house. Kinda seems like I should have won that one.

I've had nothing but problems with feuds.

[JC]

Originally posted by Emperor2000:

No, they are not, you should watch Steinwallen's Let's Plays, the actual Etichonen and the La Tour du Pin and you will see how bad House Feuds are.

I've never had one trigger, I guess i play nice.

Originally posted by ƬᗩԲԲվ:

I lost a feud after executing every last member of their house. Kinda seems like I should have won that one.

I've had nothing but problems with feuds.

I'm not sure what to say about this outside of, I wonder why?

[Doc Dreamist]

You can decide to not start a feud. Maybe you're just clicking the option that always starts it?

In my experience, after killing one or two members of the feuding house, you can also get the option to end the feud.

[Kimlin]

Originally posted by Doc Dreamist:

You can decide to not start a feud. Maybe you're just clicking the option that always starts it?

In my experience, after killing one or two members of the feuding house, you can also get the option to end the feud.

If I’m not in the mood for a feud I just take out the house head, and that usually takes care of it.