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Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 2:51am
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So the only way to become a vampire is to be gay for Astarion?
I've made Astarion Vampire Ascendant, yet there was no option to ask him to make me a vampire.

Apparently that is because I did not pursue a romantic relationship with him. I am playing a male character who is straight, and rebuffed all of Astarion's advances. However, we still have an extraordinary relationship (i.e. close friendship).

So, the only way a player character can become a vampire is to either play as Astarion (who is gay/bi), or have a romance with Astarion? Straight male characters can't become a vampire?

This is some new level of woke pandering. Gate the vampire race behind literally being/roleplaying gay.

This game is such crap sometimes.
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Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 11:41am 
Originally posted by DrainPython:
Astarion only turns you into a vampire spawn so he can control you in a relationship, why would he do that to some guy he's just friends with?

Why did Cazador have a whole bunch of Spawn he did not care a whiff about? Because it increased his power.

Having a powerful ally who is also tied to you through vampirism is precisely what a power-hungry vampire would do. In fact, that is basically their entire schtick.

Originally posted by DrainPython:
It's pretty obvious that he'll never make you a real vampire if you do go through with it anyways - not sure why you want your tav to be manipulated so bad

The tadpole makes you resist the effects of the vampiric bond, just like Astarion could resist Cazador's bond. However, Astarion himself apparently doesn't realise that until he turns you.
Cyanide Mar 24, 2024 @ 11:43am 
well you don't become a "vampire" anyways, you become a "spawn" so calm your titties
Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 11:46am 
Originally posted by Kairos:
OP, if you paid attention to Astarion's quest line, you'd know, that pure Vampires are greedy and selfish. There is no option for Astarion to make you a Vampire, because now that he is one, he doesn't want to share.

My character is Astarion's closest ally, the one who made his Ascension possible. My character also a literal demigod (Chosen of Bhaal) and a partial-Illithid. It makes a whole lot of sense for Astarion to strengthen our bond through vampirism. And denying it to my character risks making us enemies, which would be unwise for Astarion.

Again, there are at least two systems in BG3 that should have come into play here: Relationship and Social skills. My relationship with Astarion is at maximum, and my character's social skills are through the roof. So why couldn't he convince Astarion to make him a vampire, after helping him become Ascendant?
The Yeen Queen Mar 24, 2024 @ 12:14pm 
Originally posted by Moddingspree:
Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):

Because "good" equals slaughtering people based solely off of broad stereotypes...

Or simply because that creep tried to kill me? lol

Except....he didn't. Well, not deliberately. And if you go into his story and Faerun vampire lor in general, it's clear he wasn't fully in control in that moment.
Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 12:41pm 
Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
Originally posted by Moddingspree:

Or simply because that creep tried to kill me? lol

Except....he didn't. Well, not deliberately. And if you go into his story and Faerun vampire lor in general, it's clear he wasn't fully in control in that moment.

He did, and deliberately so. Cazador's control over him was cut off by the tadpole, and he is entirely in his right mind before, during and after the attack (I don't even think D&D vampires have "blood frenzy" as a regular feature). He's also just plain chaotic evil, so killing your character for any perceived profit is entirely up his alley.
votadc Mar 24, 2024 @ 12:51pm 
Originally posted by seeker1:

Sure ... just as a vampire spawn is also not a vampire. Your thread says Astarion can't make you a vampire. Totally correct, he can only make you a vampire spawn. Since we're being technical, your thread title is wrong.

I have good sir. But the THREAD TITLE in your OP says "you must be gay for Astarion to become a vampire". Except, he can't make you a vampire, and you don't have to be gay, so your thread title contains two lies.

You can fix it anytime you like.
Game seems bugged then. Astarion Is never a mere vampire like Cazador. He Is an Ascendant Vampire, something that never existed before. He should make you a real vampire, not a mere spawn until he consider you as an enemy.
Tiviani Mar 24, 2024 @ 12:56pm 
Originally posted by Blackdragon:
Originally posted by Kairos:
OP, if you paid attention to Astarion's quest line, you'd know, that pure Vampires are greedy and selfish. There is no option for Astarion to make you a Vampire, because now that he is one, he doesn't want to share.

My character is Astarion's closest ally, the one who made his Ascension possible. My character also a literal demigod (Chosen of Bhaal) and a partial-Illithid. It makes a whole lot of sense for Astarion to strengthen our bond through vampirism. And denying it to my character risks making us enemies, which would be unwise for Astarion.

Again, there are at least two systems in BG3 that should have come into play here: Relationship and Social skills. My relationship with Astarion is at maximum, and my character's social skills are through the roof. So why couldn't he convince Astarion to make him a vampire, after helping him become Ascendant?


If you pay attention to Astarion's story it's mentioned that vampires are extremely selfish, power hungry and they RARELY make other true vampires. The first thing Astarion tells you about vampires is that one of the only things that is dangerous to a vampire is, you guessed it, another vampire.

He just gained the ultimate freedom for himself. Why in Bhaal's name would he risk that immediately by creating another vampire?

Also, while yes, it's kinda rude that you can't start and play as a custom vampire-spawn but there is a way. You can start the game as Astarion. He is male and if you romance one of the females, he's not gay.
Last edited by Tiviani; Mar 24, 2024 @ 12:57pm
Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:03pm 
Originally posted by Tiviani:
If you pay attention to Astarion's story it's mentioned that vampires are extremely selfish and power hungry and they RARELY make other true vampires. The first thing Astarion tells you about vampires is that one of the only things that is dangerous to a vampire is, you guessed it, another vampire.

He just gained the ultimate freedom for himself. Why in Bhaal's name would he risk that immediately by creating another vampire?

There are plenty of "other vampires" in the world already. Astarion is not just "another vampire", he is a Vampire Ascendant, a king among vampires. My character is Astarion's closest and most powerful ally, it would make eminent sense for Astarion to strengthen our alliance by turning me into a vampire (and who knows, possibly controlling me through the vampire bond, despite the tadpole - he is Ascendant after all). At the very least, that would tie my interests to Astarion's even further, since I would be of the same vampiric "tribe" as himself.

Originally posted by Tiviani:
Also, while yes, it's kinda rude that you can't start and play as a custom vampire-spawn but there is a way. You can start the game as Astarion. He is male and if you romance one of the females, he's not gay.

Astarion is so damn gay, not even screwing a woman would un-gay him. Being gay is basically his main character trait, alongside with being a cold-blooded bastard. He's like Dr Frankenfurter: yeah he screws a woman in the movie, but does that make him less gay? Hell no!
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The Yeen Queen Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:13pm 
Originally posted by Blackdragon:
Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):

Except....he didn't. Well, not deliberately. And if you go into his story and Faerun vampire lor in general, it's clear he wasn't fully in control in that moment.

He did, and deliberately so. Cazador's control over him was cut off by the tadpole, and he is entirely in his right mind before, during and after the attack (I don't even think D&D vampires have "blood frenzy" as a regular feature).

Not exactly a blood frenzy, no, but being blood starved does effect their judgment, just as malnourished can do to a human. "Wasn't fully in control" doesn't inherently mean "someone else was controlling him". Also worth noting that he's the victim of literally centuries of abuse beyond what any mortal would survive, much less endure.

He will tell you himself in a conversation later on if you're playing the Durge that he understands what it's like to lose himself because he gets like that when the hunger is too strong.

As far as his alignment goes, more neutral evil at the start. Un-ascended Astarion moves toward true neutral by the end of the game. He goes through a LOT of growth through the game. When you meet him, he'd just escaped a life of being scared, broken, and having to be paranoid all the time.

It is also worth noting that he promises never to bite you or any of the party without permission after that one moment of weakness and never once even attempts to break that promise. In fact, he promises to keep the biting to "bandits and the like" that they're fighting and will likely have to kill anyway. And by all indications, that's how it goes.
Tiviani Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:27pm 
Originally posted by Blackdragon:
Originally posted by Tiviani:
If you pay attention to Astarion's story it's mentioned that vampires are extremely selfish and power hungry and they RARELY make other true vampires. The first thing Astarion tells you about vampires is that one of the only things that is dangerous to a vampire is, you guessed it, another vampire.

He just gained the ultimate freedom for himself. Why in Bhaal's name would he risk that immediately by creating another vampire?

There are plenty of "other vampires" in the world already. Astarion is not just "another vampire", he is a Vampire Ascendant, a king among vampires. My character is Astarion's closest and most powerful ally, it would make eminent sense for Astarion to strengthen our alliance by turning me into a vampire (and who knows, possibly controlling me through the vampire bond, despite the tadpole - he is Ascendant after all). At the very least, that would tie my interests to Astarion's even further, since I would be of the same vampiric "tribe" as himself.

Originally posted by Tiviani:
Also, while yes, it's kinda rude that you can't start and play as a custom vampire-spawn but there is a way. You can start the game as Astarion. He is male and if you romance one of the females, he's not gay.

Astarion is so damn gay, not even screwing a woman would un-gay him. Being gay is basically his main character trait, alongside with being a cold-blooded bastard. He's like Dr Frankenfurter: yeah he screws a woman in the movie, but does that make him less gay? Hell no!

IMO it makes sense to me because even if you're his lover he doesn't make you his equal. He grants your wish but that request kills any sort of respect he has for you. Once he ascends his morality (Ha, funny term for the sassy lad.) he completely is lost to the power and the 'freedom' it grants. It's a gamble that he can't risk.

The PC IS his most powerful ally and after ascending, it's the only advantage that he has that the PC doesn't. The party goes through a lot of baddies that are strong af, including the avatars of gods. With how self centered he becomes after accession he is no longer thinking about the party as equal allies, the PC included.

I'm not saying it's not bananas to have to be in a romance to be a certain race. It would have been awesome if they gave us the option but I think, with the story they've created it makes sense at least. The only way for the selfish git to share any amount of new power is if you were literally as close to him as you ever possibly could be.

Haha, true, but my female PC romance with him doesn't feel very gay. He's just very good at getting people into bed with him, doesn't matter the gender.
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Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:31pm 
Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
Originally posted by Blackdragon:

He did, and deliberately so. Cazador's control over him was cut off by the tadpole, and he is entirely in his right mind before, during and after the attack (I don't even think D&D vampires have "blood frenzy" as a regular feature).

Not exactly a blood frenzy, no, but being blood starved does effect their judgment, just as malnourished can do to a human. "Wasn't fully in control" doesn't inherently mean "someone else was controlling him". Also worth noting that he's the victim of literally centuries of abuse beyond what any mortal would survive, much less endure.

Aw come on, that was just him trying to ingratiate himself into the group. He was perfectly able to "control" his urges, as his actions clearly demonstrate.

Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
As far as his alignment goes, more neutral evil at the start.

Nah. Shadowheart is Neutral Evil. Astarion is about as Chaotic Evil as it gets, without crossing into Stupid Evil territory. He laughs at Durge murderizing a squirrel, and generally supports all the mayhem and carnage choices (while Shart favors deception/indirect approach). He was the only companion to support my character becoming a Chosen of Bhaal (who is a Chaotic Evil God of Murder).

Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
Un-ascended Astarion moves toward true neutral by the end of the game. He goes through a LOT of growth through the game.

Yeah, sure, the "good route" involves you turning him into a more neutral type of character (like with Viconia in BG2-ToB). But through most of the game, he is clearly chaotic evil.

Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
When you meet him, he'd just escaped a life of being scared, broken, and having to be paranoid all the time.

That doesn't make him good or neutral. Most every villain has a "sob story" up his sleeve.

Originally posted by Night Foxx (She/her):
It is also worth noting that he promises never to bite you or any of the party without permission after that one moment of weakness and never once even attempts to break that promise. In fact, he promises to keep the biting to "bandits and the like" that they're fighting and will likely have to kill anyway. And by all indications, that's how it goes.

In my game, I threatened to stake him if he ever tries biting party members again. The threat held, as well as the need to have allies with a common cause. He's evil, not stupid.
Blackdragon Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:39pm 
Originally posted by Tiviani:
IMO it makes sense to me because even if you're his lover he doesn't make you his equal. He grants your wish but that request kills any sort of respect he has for you. Once he ascends his morality (Ha, funny term for the sassy lad.) he completely is lost to the power and the 'freedom' it grants. It's a gamble that he can't risk.

The PC IS his most powerful ally and after ascending, it's the only advantage that he has that the PC doesn't. The party goes through a lot of baddies that are strong af, including the avatars of gods. With how self centered he becomes after accession he is no longer thinking about the party as equal allies, the PC included.

Like you just said, if he turns you, he considers you "beneath" himself, a weaker creature. So he doesn't view you as a rival in vampire powers. Why then hesitate to offer this "gift" to the main character? If anything, it should decrease any rivalry, since:

a) the player and Astarion would now be united by more common interests (as vampires),
b) the player would be under Astarion's "bond" that Astarion could hope to capitalize on somehow (even if it doesn't work directly due to the illithid tadpole),
c) Astarion thereby "repays" the player's help in his Ascension and further cements the player's loyalty.

Whereas by refusing the player this "gift", Astarion risks alienating himself and turning the player into an actual enemy.

Originally posted by Tiviani:
I'm not saying it's not bananas to have to be in a romance to be a certain race. It would have been awesome if they gave us the option but I think, with the story they've created it makes sense at least. The only way for the selfish git to share any amount of new power is if you were literally as close to him as you ever possibly could be.

My character IS as close to Astarion as technically possible within the game's mechanics (Relationship gauge at maximum). Having this be a "romantic" decision doesn't make sense at all, since Vampires create other Vampires/Spawn not out of any romantic feeling but in order to gain more power for themselves, and my character is the most powerful ally Astarion could hope for.

In fact, a "romantic" decision would have been for Astarion to REFUSE to turn the player into a vampire spawn, since Astarion knows very well how sad and depraved such existence can be.
Last edited by Blackdragon; Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:40pm
DrZann Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:44pm 
Not so long ago you guys did want companions to have definite preferences...
Last edited by DrZann; Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:46pm
seeker1 Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:50pm 
He's not gay, he's European.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-flrAZTM-6s

Take that to the bank, dah-ling.
Last edited by seeker1; Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:51pm
Wokelander Mar 24, 2024 @ 1:54pm 
Originally posted by Blackdragon:
I've made Astarion Vampire Ascendant, yet there was no option to ask him to make me a vampire.

Apparently that is because I did not pursue a romantic relationship with him. I am playing a male character who is straight, and rebuffed all of Astarion's advances. However, we still have an extraordinary relationship (i.e. close friendship).

So, the only way a player character can become a vampire is to either play as Astarion (who is gay/bi), or have a romance with Astarion? Straight male characters can't become a vampire?

This is some new level of woke pandering. Gate the vampire race behind literally being/roleplaying gay.

This game is such crap sometimes.

The level of entitlement is unreal.

Did you know that sometimes in (roleplaying) games, some gameplay options are gated behind choices? Madness, I know, but there you are
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