Minthara Romance Question

[Wbto]

I have a quick question about being able to romance Minthara. Currently I am somewhere in act 1, I do not know exactly how far I am from act 2, but my plan this playthrough (my first one) is the romance Minthara. However, I know you cannot recruit her and begin that process before the start of act 2. So far Shadowheart already hates me, Karlach has tried to sleep with me and I have refused her but settled for kissing her hoping she won’t hate me too much as a result, and now Lazael has said she wants to taste me tonight when we go to sleep. I am wondering if I sleep with any of them will I ruin my chances at romancing Minthara? Currently I have been abstaining from doing any long rests in camp because I don’t want to sleep with Lazael or Karlach, but I also don’t want to be forced to and then deny them and them hate me. But then also not being able to long rest I don’t have any spells for fights. I guess my question is will sleeping with them ruin my chances at romancing Minthara come act 2. What are my options here? Thank you for any advice, I’ve had to stop playing because it’s been stressing me out.

[seeker1]

So, allow me to boil down this question. Some companions ARE OK with "double dipping" - at least for a while - Halsin is one. Minthara is not. Hope that helped.

Aside from that issue, I'll warn her romance remains a bit under-written. Still worth it for the payoff ending, though.

[Wbto]

Publicado originalmente por seeker1:

So, allow me to boil down this question. Some companions ARE OK with "double dipping" - at least for a while - Halsin is one. Minthara is not. Hope that helped.

Aside from that issue, I'll warn her romance remains a bit under-written. Still worth it for the payoff ending, though.

So should I just completely deny any advances from anybody until I get Minthara just to be safe?

[seeker1]

Let me put it this way: neither her nor Shadowheart took it very well that I had been flirting with SH earlier, and both ladies unceremoniously dumped me. So. Yeah.

Oh: and even if ... Minthara will accuse you of cheating at a certain approval level even if you didn't. Don't freak, it's a known bug, and if you didn't cheat on her, she didn't dump you. (Though given her under-written romance, it's hard to be sure.)

Fortunately, I learn from my mistakes, and didn't make that one a 2nd time.

If only I could get the polyamory mod to work, or had found Debug Book mod earlier, but alas, wasn't the case.