Baldur's Gate 3

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Puff Daddy (Banned) Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:15am
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LARIAN LET ME CHOOSE MY CHARACTER'S SEXUALITY PLZ
I'm sick and tired of rejecting male companion's advances every long rest, I keep telling them that I'm not interested and they still want my booty, it's on the verge of sexual harassment. Please let us choose our character's sexuality like you can choose their pronouns, thank you.
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fox Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:25am 
Originally posted by Logan Paul fanboy:
Originally posted by heh:
My guy literally never talks to Wyll. The one night he shows up shirtless dancing asking me to suck his ♥♥♥♥. Like, come on man. He wasn't even drunk.
Yeah me too, Astarion stayed in camp throughout act 1 and he wanted to bang me during the tiefling party.
Is your character also a selfish douche? you must be doing somethign he approves
GM Morgan Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:27am 
Originally posted by Mr D Grim:
Originally posted by zeonsghost:
It's easy. Don't pick the romance dialog options and they'll leave you alone. It's been a while since anyone has bothered me for a dragon ride. It doesn't even interrupt their companion quests.
As mentioned by 2 others here already. that's bs.

The only that's made an issue of being turned down is the Githyanki. The wizard says some ♥♥♥♥♥♥ Nice Guy TM stuff now and again, but none of that has interrupted anything. Even that settles down after a while.
heh Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:29am 
Originally posted by fox:
Originally posted by Logan Paul fanboy:
Yeah me too, Astarion stayed in camp throughout act 1 and he wanted to bang me during the tiefling party.
Is your character also a selfish douche? you must be doing somethign he approves
I think you get a bit of passive approval, even with characters that are just afk in camp, from certain story events.
Gloto Saurio Rex Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:30am 
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my man is having they first bisexual panic, what a momento. Enjoy
Puff Daddy (Banned) Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:32am 
Originally posted by Rex:
By rejecting the advances, you ARE picking your sexuality.

By all rules of social convention and awareness, that's how sexuality works in a social setting.

(Guy) "Hey I lust you." (Girl) "I lust you too!" Both are Heterosexual
(Guy) "Hey I lust you." (Girl) "Ew, I do not." Guy is Heterosexual, Girl is not.

In life, if you go to a bar, you will be hit on by other guys who think you are attractive and want to bone you. Go outside, experience a healthy social life, what Larian has done is more reflective of the real world.

The only thing is, they made the companions playersexual. So whatever reality of your character's sexuality, the companions are attracted to them.

That means, as a male player character, Gale and Wyll for example, will become gay, and Shadowheart will be straight. Opposite with your female player character.

So yes, you still get to choose your own sexuality, by denying or accepting them, lustfully..
Cool, I still don't want to be hit on by people that I've rejected. It's creepy.
Tijger Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:32am 
Originally posted by zeonsghost:
It's easy. Don't pick the romance dialog options and they'll leave you alone. It's been a while since anyone has bothered me for a dragon ride. It doesn't even interrupt their companion quests.

This. But apparently people struggle with having actual choice, weird that.
Lans Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:34am 
Originally posted by Rex:
By rejecting the advances, you ARE picking your sexuality.

By all rules of social convention and awareness, that's how sexuality works in a social setting.

(Guy) "Hey I lust you." (Girl) "I lust you too!" Both are Heterosexual
(Guy) "Hey I lust you." (Girl) "Ew, I do not." Guy is Heterosexual, Girl is not.

In life, if you go to a bar, you will be hit on by other guys who think you are attractive and want to bone you. Go outside, experience a healthy social life, what Larian has done is more reflective of the real world.

The only thing is, they made the companions playersexual. So whatever reality of your character's sexuality, the companions are attracted to them.

That means, as a male player character, Gale and Wyll for example, will become gay, and Shadowheart will be straight. Opposite with your female player character.

So yes, you still get to choose your own sexuality, by denying or accepting them, lustfully..

What if you don't go to bars, and don't want to hit on/be hit on by people? Your entire recruitable party is full of teenybopper personalities that want to sleep with you. You can't get away from it no matter which character you choose.

There's been more than enough noise on this forum to warrant a simple "not sexually interested" flag on any gender/animal you don't want to sleep with at the character creator screen. It would take a programmer less than an hour to make a hotfix like that, and - like non-binary - if you don't like it, don't enable it.

But sure, the vast majority of humanity is a bigot for not going into a gay bar and accepting drinks from people we don't want to sleep with
Puff Daddy (Banned) Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:35am 
Originally posted by Tijger:
Originally posted by zeonsghost:
It's easy. Don't pick the romance dialog options and they'll leave you alone. It's been a while since anyone has bothered me for a dragon ride. It doesn't even interrupt their companion quests.

This. But apparently people struggle with having actual choice, weird that.
They don't leave you alone, I rejected Gale's advances 3 times and I was in act 2.
B o f u Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:39am 
If you're so insecure that you can't tell somebody that's not of your preferred gender "not interested" then you probably have bigger problems than video games
Nefser Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:40am 
Roleplay it, as this is a ROLE PLAYING game.
Puff Daddy (Banned) Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:41am 
Originally posted by Rex:
If you say no, they respect you, and leave. I think the green lady, laezel, is the only one who gives you a hard time.
If so, this game might not be for you.
No they don't, they keep hitting on me and making advances, Larian can fix that with a sexuality option in the character creator, everyone's happy.
Josh Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:41am 
Name checks out
Lans Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:42am 
Originally posted by Rex:
The power is still within you, the player, to say no.
If you say no, they respect you, and leave. I think the green lady, laezel, is the only one who gives you a hard time.
If so, this game might not be for you.

You do realize that the majority of people who bought/supported/funded this game did so 2-3 years before this inclusive romance BS was in the game, right?

Imagine crowdfunding the next Shrek movie, and 3 years later finding out that it's a Shrek/Donkey porno. But the sales are great! This is what the people want! If you don't like it, don't buy it!

Well it's too late. We bought it before bear sex existed in the game. We funded the salaries of the programmers that made interchangeable genitals. The "don't want it don't buy it" argument sank 3 years ago.
woops Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:42am 
I said the same thing, BG3 is sexually harassing me
fox Aug 9, 2023 @ 9:43am 
Originally posted by Logan Paul fanboy:
Originally posted by Tijger:

This. But apparently people struggle with having actual choice, weird that.
They don't leave you alone, I rejected Gale's advances 3 times and I was in act 2.

Sorry if it genuinely made you uncomfortable but i cannot stop laughing because this is now coming from a dude instead of a lady
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