Baldur's Gate 3

Baldur's Gate 3

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locking threads about asexuality
why? the moderators keep saying they're doing it cause it's devolved into an unproductive conversation but it feels more like they just want to silence the asexual members of the LGBTQA community. what does steam or larian or steam's moderators have against us that we can't have an open discussion on these forums about how we don't like how obnoxious the game is being shoving sexual innuendos or content in our face? how is it any more unproductive to point out that we exist and this stuff bothers us than it is for all the threads about how hard or easy the game is because people hate the dice rolls?

why can't we talk about how we don't want to feel like sexual content is being shoved in our faces in this game? how is that unproductive? i literally made a thread before the game launched asking if romance stuff was going to be optional, was assured by members of the community that it would be, then after launch, i see a bunch of threads of people complaining about how overt and repeated it is. how forced it feels. that's the opposite of what i was told the game experience was going to be. i don't see how it's unproductive to discuss something like that. if a steam moderator wants to lock my thread, could you at least do me the courtesy of telling me why you think it's productive? cause i'm going to challenge you on it and ask you why it is anyway.

asexual people are always overlooked, but we are technically part of the LGBT community whether we see ourselves as such or not. we don't ever ask for things. this is the first game i've seen other asexual people such as myself coming out and complaining about how forced the romance and sexual content feels. instead of immediately locking the discussions because you have some sort of bigotry against the topic or us altogether, could you try and repress that feeling and let us actually have a discussion among ourselves instead of repressing our ability to discuss this problem with the game?
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AlphaVictorKilo Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:10pm 
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Dude, it's literally turning into a cesspool of people hurling insults at each other/the LGBTQIA+ community, that's why they're getting shut down, not a case of wanting to silence a group

Also you're not "technically" part of the community, you ARE part of the community
Chaosolous Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:11pm 
If people would talk about the actual game and not how it makes them feel we'd all be better off.
Patriot Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:13pm 
Oh, and I'll say this as a gay man anyone in the LGBT+ community is in a cesspool. I'm with the Gs and the whole LGBT+ has nothing to do with me.
Last edited by Patriot; Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:13pm
fae.wicket Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:19pm 
Hi, married to an asexual human and friends with many others.

Asexuality, like everything else, is a spectrum. You also do have the option to draw the line physically. No, it doesn't seem like there's an option for aromantic folk, but asexuals, yeah. You can reject and draw lines.
fae.wicket Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:20pm 
Originally posted by fae.wicket:
Hi, married to an asexual human and friends with many others.

Asexuality, like everything else, is a spectrum. You also do have the option to draw the line physically. No, it doesn't seem like there's an option for aromantic folk, but asexuals, yeah. You can reject and draw lines.
Talking about game options.
Dreaming Prince Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:20pm 
true op, it annoys me too. seems to me the whole lgbt thing is some globalist divide and conquer psy ops full of hypocrites, dramaqueens, fascists and inflated egoes
Last edited by Dreaming Prince; Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:23pm
Lungrot Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:22pm 
Originally posted by Dreaming Prince:
true op, it anoys me too. seems to me the whole lgbt thin is some globalist divide and conquer psy ops full of hypocrites, dramaqueens, fascists and inflated egoes
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ lol, yikes
comradeclown Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:23pm 
are yall 14 or something
So you are an amphibian?
thefollowingcharacters Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:28pm 
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I'm asexual, stop complaining. It IS optional. Just turn everyone down. Get over your own uncomfortableness. We are not special. The world doesn't change for us, nor should it. Sexuality keeps the human race going, and we're the one's that don't. You want to be special? Cure cancer. Otherwise enjoy the game and get over yourself.
Kinori Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:28pm 
Just don't romance them, dawg. Like click the button that says no thanks.
Last edited by Kinori; Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:28pm
Originally posted by Patriot:
Originally posted by His Divine Shadow:
Says the clearly not very closeted pervert. I’ve seen your replies in other threads.

Sex and topics about sex is like 90% of your comments

There is sex the action and then sex the biological reality. I do talk about both. Also not a pervert. Just a flaming ♥♥♥♥. Wait...you're not a homophobe are you *GASP*
No, I’m actually a non self hating gay man. You know what I shouldn’t say that considering I don’t actually believe you’re gay. All you’ve done is ♥♥♥♥♥ about lgbt people in every thread I’ve seen you in
Last edited by His Divine Shadow; Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:33pm
R^bbit-74 Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:29pm 
i read the first bit of your stuff then ,i went and played a game ,yawn
Flavour Bun Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:30pm 
That thread in particular was a troll thread, the individual who posted it was just looking to stir up hate. It was locked for that reason, I read the replies before it was locked and 100% agree with the decision.

I don't think they were trying to silence anyone except for the guy calling people slurs and admitting to attempted ban evasion (that went well for them, lol).

If you want a thread addressing your concerns, then make one. I support you. :steamthumbsup:
True Beard Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:38pm 
The sexual aspects of the relationships with your companions are easy to reject and avoid if that’s what you want. I’ve come to discover it’s really not that bad. In fact, I don’t even mind it all.

If you actually immerse yourself in the world and attempt to understand why some of these characters are so hyper sexual. You may come to find that it’s not just humans being the naturally highly sexual creatures that they are.

Think about it: If you had a mind flayer tadpole stuck in your head, on the cusp of what could be your last day alive, wouldn’t you want to enjoy every moment, potentially finding some love, and happiness, in your last days?

I know I’m probably not going to sway any opinions here, but thinking of it in this way actually helps make the game even more enjoyable for me.
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Date Posted: Aug 6, 2023 @ 5:06pm
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