Can you romance Lae'zel and Shadowheart at the same time?

[Goatmanpig]

Well "romance" in Lae'zel's case as it's more of a casual thing.

I could potentially see Shadowheart being locked out.

[GrapeLogic]

Originally posted by Ukato_lich:

in my case it was not possible but shadow heart and the demon girl or mithara if it is possible to have polyamory ....sorry english is not my language

Maybe , I think the gith is the big solo relationship locker , you can’t do her and anyone else but others like halsin let you go at it with anyone and you can have a 4 way

[DGC]

I didn't bed Lae'zel before the post-goblin massacre party.

However I did bed shadowheart on that party.

Lae'zel got mad I promised myself to "the elf" but still wanted to try my druidic schlong.

I did one more long rest and I got Lae'zel trying to kill me cause I was getting symptoms from the tadpole.

Then my supposed guardian showed up and to everyone else in dream at the camp.

Let's see what the future holds.

Ps: i totally killed the drow without knowing there was a companion option..

[Murderhobo]

Originally posted by 👁:

Imagine you in camp and you have s*x with your lover and your other party members watching

I mean having very loud sex with Minthara didn't seem to piss off Shadowheart, she is a sweetheart.

[tangtanytony]

I've made a video about how to romance all 3 girls together, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnVGmMClEws&t=4s

[swampdonkey]

(spoilers ahead)

In my experience you can romance both of them, though I just got to Act III, so I'm not sure how far I can take it at this point.

I was able to get the first romance scene with Shadowheart during the goblin camp quest, before rescuing the refugees/camp party. I believe this is an intergral step. At the party Shadowheart just gives flirty dialog instead of the usual invitation to share a bottle of wine with her, and this is when I got the first sex scene with Lae'zel. Later on (around the crused lands) Lae'zel wakes my character up to fight with her to prove worthiness or something, and she caves in, admitting she wants to protect my character rather than hurt them. At this point the characters seemed to be in a relationship and I was given dialog options to "talk about us" and kiss her at any time. Now, any conversation with Shadowheart turns into a choice between the two characters, and if you pick Shadowheart, Lae'zel's dialog options go away entirely. But I said "♥♥♥♥ that" and just didn't talk to Shadowheart until after convincing her to free the Nightsong, which requires a stupid high dice roll. Afterwards when you leave through the portal to reach the overworld, Shadowheart has an exclamation point above her head and when I spoke with her we talk about Shar, the Nightsong, etc. and she reveals she has feelings for the player character. If you tell her you have feelings back at this point, it doesn't remove Lae'zel's dialog options, but it does remove Shadowheart's dialog that makes you pick between her or Lae'zel. After defeating Kethric you can speak with Isobel, the Nightsong and Shadowheart at your camp about Shadowheart and Shar etc. After this conversation I was able to talk to Shadowheart about our relationship and also kiss her while also being able to do the same with Lae'zel. I just made it to Baldur's Gate and still have these relationship dialog options with both characters, but don't know how things will end ATM.

[anime_addict]

Originally posted by Zebulon:

(spoilers ahead)

In my experience you can romance both of them, though I just got to Act III, so I'm not sure how far I can take it at this point.

I was able to get the first romance scene with Shadowheart during the goblin camp quest, before rescuing the refugees/camp party. I believe this is an intergral step. At the party Shadowheart just gives flirty dialog instead of the usual invitation to share a bottle of wine with her, and this is when I got the first sex scene with Lae'zel. Later on (around the crused lands) Lae'zel wakes my character up to fight with her to prove worthiness or something, and she caves in, admitting she wants to protect my character rather than hurt them. At this point the characters seemed to be in a relationship and I was given dialog options to "talk about us" and kiss her at any time. Now, any conversation with Shadowheart turns into a choice between the two characters, and if you pick Shadowheart, Lae'zel's dialog options go away entirely. But I said "♥♥♥♥ that" and just didn't talk to Shadowheart until after convincing her to free the Nightsong, which requires a stupid high dice roll. Afterwards when you leave through the portal to reach the overworld, Shadowheart has an exclamation point above her head and when I spoke with her we talk about Shar, the Nightsong, etc. and she reveals she has feelings for the player character. If you tell her you have feelings back at this point, it doesn't remove Lae'zel's dialog options, but it does remove Shadowheart's dialog that makes you pick between her or Lae'zel. After defeating Kethric you can speak with Isobel, the Nightsong and Shadowheart at your camp about Shadowheart and Shar etc. After this conversation I was able to talk to Shadowheart about our relationship and also kiss her while also being able to do the same with Lae'zel. I just made it to Baldur's Gate and still have these relationship dialog options with both characters, but don't know how things will end ATM.

I just got to the pick between them option in Act 2. Planning on doing what you did unless you ran into any issue later on down the road?

[InstaTalent]

Originally posted by Zebulon:

(spoilers ahead)

In my experience you can romance both of them, though I just got to Act III, so I'm not sure how far I can take it at this point.

I was able to get the first romance scene with Shadowheart during the goblin camp quest, before rescuing the refugees/camp party. I believe this is an intergral step. At the party Shadowheart just gives flirty dialog instead of the usual invitation to share a bottle of wine with her, and this is when I got the first sex scene with Lae'zel. Later on (around the crused lands) Lae'zel wakes my character up to fight with her to prove worthiness or something, and she caves in, admitting she wants to protect my character rather than hurt them. At this point the characters seemed to be in a relationship and I was given dialog options to "talk about us" and kiss her at any time. Now, any conversation with Shadowheart turns into a choice between the two characters, and if you pick Shadowheart, Lae'zel's dialog options go away entirely. But I said "♥♥♥♥ that" and just didn't talk to Shadowheart until after convincing her to free the Nightsong, which requires a stupid high dice roll. Afterwards when you leave through the portal to reach the overworld, Shadowheart has an exclamation point above her head and when I spoke with her we talk about Shar, the Nightsong, etc. and she reveals she has feelings for the player character. If you tell her you have feelings back at this point, it doesn't remove Lae'zel's dialog options, but it does remove Shadowheart's dialog that makes you pick between her or Lae'zel. After defeating Kethric you can speak with Isobel, the Nightsong and Shadowheart at your camp about Shadowheart and Shar etc. After this conversation I was able to talk to Shadowheart about our relationship and also kiss her while also being able to do the same with Lae'zel. I just made it to Baldur's Gate and still have these relationship dialog options with both characters, but don't know how things will end ATM.

Thank youuu! I had planned on breaking up with shadowheart for lazael but didn’t get the dialog option for it (still in act one) but my relationship with Lazael is progressing fast, (got to sleep with her twice) but shadowheart and I are still courting so lol. But now I know I can just continue to romance both I shall be content

[Ereghor the Enigmatic]

By the way...

in the EA there were hints (+ some datamined stuff) which implied that Lae'zel/Shadowheart could go from enemies to lovers (the remnant of which is the one scene in the main game where SH tries to murder Lae'zel and you get them to drop their rivalry) and that there could be a three-way romance involving the PC and both of them.

So much for that.

[Ranpo]

Shadowheart will never open up to you while you're still banging Laezel. You have to tell Laezel you don't wanna do this anymore and it immediately changes Shadowheart's dialogue options to move forward with relationship

[SilentFall]

Why would you want somebody other than Lae'zel???? BEST WAIFU. It is a shame larian didnt give her (or any other romance) a proper ending. I would buy a DLC where you get to interact more with her and make her laugh (somehow), cute....

[nova]

Originally posted by thenothingguy:

Spoilers. So far, I got an early romance with Lae'zel. The dialogue option for a relationship showed up just as i was leaving the druid grove to deal with the goblins. Took a bit, but on the 5th night I went to camp, she came and dominated me. This was also before the party. During the party, Shadowheart was hinting at a fun time, and I followed through. It is worth to note that i had no option to meet with Lae'zel the night of the party, even though we are certainly involved. I talked to Lae'zel afterwards, nothing. But I guess I will see what happens later in the story.

What happened

[psychotron666]

No you can't. You're fine for the first act but once you get act 2 you have to choose one or the other