Confused about romance progression

[macca]

So during the first act I have had a romance scene with Shadowheart, but later on, when I've finished the goblin camp, all of the other characters offered to spend the night with them, even the ones I was not playing with, EXCEPT shadowheart.

The dialogue at the end allowed me to choose any other character to romance that night, but for her it said "try to push twisting thoughts of shadowheart from your mind", so I'm confused. Does that mean that i didn't get enough approval from her, or that i've already seen the scene reserved for the first act?

[Tartuccio]

Could be approval, or some insight check failed if there was one, don't remember (but don't think there was one}. When you press TAB > Character Sheet (on the top of the screen) you can see the party members approval rating of you.

Mine with her was "Relationship is very good. Character is happy with and easily convinced by avatar". Also, I some of the others are more horny, flirty and forward than Shadowheart, lol. Like Astarion wanted to have sex with me even though his approval with me was neutral, pretty sure.

[macca]

Originally posted by Tartuccio:

Could be approval, or some insight check failed if there was one, don't remember (but don't think there was one}. When you press TAB > Character Sheet (on the top of the screen) you can see the party members approval rating of you.

Mine with her was "Relationship is very good. Character is happy with and easily convinced by avatar". Also, I some of the others are more horny, flirty and forward than Shadowheart, lol. Like Astarion wanted to have sex with me even though his approval with me was neutral, pretty sure.

I think i've found out how it works, basically I had a scene with SH already, thats why I didn't have her that night, however, the game also offers a change to start of a romancing questline for 1 any other character, even if you are not close with them, thats why it felt off.

I've started the line with Gale, so after the camp party his and SH's ratings of me were very good, others were neutral, and they were not having any extra dialogue options so IG the romancing quests r gonna be locked until the next major even or smth like that, unless I manually raise the approval with them a lot like with SH.