Baldur's Gate 3

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Help... I'm being misgendered
So, I just arrived in the Druid grove, playing a manly man male bard.
First conversation after walking through the gate, the Tiefling reprimands the other guy that "THIS WOMAN JUST SAVED US"

No big deal, bugs happen, fine.

Now in the jail cell, I'M being referred to as a woman AGAIN by the goblin prisoner.

WTF, did I ♥♥♥♥ up in character creation? Is this a bug?
Do I have to start over from the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ beginning?!
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MeldinX2 Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:22pm 
Originally posted by Chillermaschine:
So, I just arrived in the Druid grove, playing a manly man male bard.
First conversation after walking through the gate, the Tiefling reprimands the other guy that "THIS WOMAN JUST SAVED US"

No big deal, bugs happen, fine.

Now in the jail cell, I'M being referred to as a woman AGAIN by the goblin prisoner.

WTF, did I ♥♥♥♥ up in character creation? Is this a bug?
Do I have to start over from the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ beginning?!

Maybe you changed your pronoun to Female when you made your character?
Xav Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:25pm 
Or it's possible one of your companions, such as Shadowheart, was the POV for that cutscene. Not a big fan of how that works myself but it can happen, especially in conversations that initiate after combat as it'll usually be the final positions of your characters that determines who "gets talked to".
darkholyPL Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:30pm 
I've noticed when I was making my character, that after switching to 'body type 2' or w/e it's called the male, from the 1, which is female, it still didn't change my sex to male. It was still female. I needed to switch it manually.
So maybe that happened to you, and you just didn't notice.
Cutlass Jack Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:32pm 
Body type, gender, voice and genitals are all seperate choices, for better or worse. Make sure you got them all where you want them, so to speak.
Help, I'm being repressed.
pascal.difolco Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:33pm 
Wokism really is a pain man
zero Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:34pm 
you messed up your character creation.
Chillermaschine Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:34pm 
Originally posted by darkholyPL:
I've noticed when I was making my character, that after switching to 'body type 2' or w/e it's called the male, from the 1, which is female, it still didn't change my sex to male. It was still female. I needed to switch it manually.
So maybe that happened to you, and you just didn't notice.

Damn... I'm pretty sure I set it to male but I played around with body types and faces, maybe it reset during all that...

Isn't there some way to change my gender in-game? You really should just be able to select it in the character window, since it's apparently a social construct and all, I just don't want to be misgendered for 100 hours. Welp... Guess I'll restart. AGAIN. Hooray...
Mišmil Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:35pm 
Help... i'm being misgendered! made me freaking laugh, you're not getting mugged dude.

HELP, HELP... I AM BEING MISGENDERED!

Why is this so funny to me
Ohnooze Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:35pm 
lol...1st world problems
Chillermaschine Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:47pm 
Originally posted by Mišmil:
Help... i'm being misgendered! made me freaking laugh, you're not getting mugged dude.

HELP, HELP... I AM BEING MISGENDERED!

Why is this so funny to me

Gee, I'm glad you're so well entertained by my misery, LADY...
HOW DOES THAT FEEL, HUH? ARE YOU STILL LAUGHING?

I'm joking there obviously, I just don't want to be adressed as a woman when I'm playing some hunk as it's ridiculous and takes away the immersion quite a bit.

Just wanted to see if it's a known issue before I throw away 5 hours of gaming to start over.
Mišmil Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:49pm 
Originally posted by Chillermaschine:
Originally posted by Mišmil:
Help... i'm being misgendered! made me freaking laugh, you're not getting mugged dude.

HELP, HELP... I AM BEING MISGENDERED!

Why is this so funny to me

Gee, I'm glad you're so well entertained by my misery, LADY...
HOW DOES THAT FEEL, HUH? ARE YOU STILL LAUGHING?

I'm joking there obviously, I just don't want to be adressed as a woman when I'm playing some hunk as it's ridiculous and takes away the immersion quite a bit.

Just wanted to see if it's a known issue before I throw away 5 hours of gaming to start over.

Roll a new game my dude. And be careful with the settings!
Puppet Pal Clem Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:51pm 
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Originally posted by pascal.difolco:
Wokism really is a pain man

Having more character customization options isn't woke. *BRAINDEAD WOJAK MEME*
Chillermaschine Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:52pm 
Originally posted by Ohnooze:
lol...1st world problems

I'll let you off with a warning, but be careful...
In another context, ridiculing misgendering might be considered a hate crime :moxes:
AsianGirlLover Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:53pm 
Yeah, they decided that your genitals and body type shouldn’t make it obvious what sex you are, so you gotta manually choose that.

You probably can’t even fix that with Withers…
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Date Posted: Aug 4, 2023 @ 1:21pm
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