Is kissing cheating?

[Lilly]

So, one of the girls I work with has a boyfriend, but she hangs out with and even kisses, like making out kinda kissing, this other girl from work. So to her it's not a thing, it's just a natural part of friendship, I guess? But I don't understand. If you're SO is making out with someone, regardless of gender, isn't it kinda cheaty? I mean, it seems to me like it is just because the girl is really trashy, so I feel bad for the boyfriend who has to kiss her after that.

[Platypus20]

Originally posted by TwisterCat:

I was just going to get a cup of coffee, and I slipped, and I got somebody pregnant as I was falling! :crying_yeti:

Did I cheat, or is the blame on the slippery floors?

Lmaooo frrr what is this post xD obviously making out with someone else while in a relationship is cheating

Even seeing my girlfriend kiss another dude on the cheek just to be "friendly" I'd be raging at her. Like, nah fam, pass me with dat.

I'm suspicious of this post (I think it's a kink post where the user gets off on discussing matters of cheating <_<... >_>).

[Pocahawtness]

Originally posted by Lilly:

So, one of the girls I work with has a boyfriend, but she hangs out with and even kisses, like making out kinda kissing, this other girl from work. So to her it's not a thing, it's just a natural part of friendship, I guess? But I don't understand. If you're SO is making out with someone, regardless of gender, isn't it kinda cheaty? I mean, it seems to me like it is just because the girl is really trashy, so I feel bad for the boyfriend who has to kiss her after that.

It is absolutely cheating, yes.

A lot of people (wrongly) justify this sort of thing because they don't see that a different gender is being unfaithful. But it is.

Even relationships where the principle partners have discussed and allowed such things have a much higher rate of failure than ordinary relationships.

You usually see this because partners agree to such things only because they are interested in the benefits for themselves, not the primary relationship, so eventually, when that becomes clear, the primary relationship fails.

In other words, don't be greedy. relationships with multiple partners rarely work.

[GunsForBucks]

She's probably trying for a threesome.

Easier for the girl to approach another girl rather than the guy. Especially if she is psychologically unbalanced and in a frail state of mind.

[Q-T_3.14.exe]

I don't want to be that kind of person but... What happened to not sticking your nose into other people's business? Isn't that like a violation of one's privacy?

[Apollo702]

Kissing is what it's all about. Why else would they make so many movies about it?

https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3050026384

Everyone is into kissing! It's what we all want!

[St✩rlight]

I would say yes, but you never know. She might just be doing it so she can tell her bf about it later, knowing he might enjoy hearing about that.

[Raoul]

What if the boyfriend knows and even condones it though?

[Merci]

No i make out with all my friends

[Kamiyama]

Originally posted by Platypus20:

what the hell, lilly

lol

[TWPanda77]

yes

[Lilly]

Originally posted by Q-T_3.14.exe:

I don't want to be that kind of person but... What happened to not sticking your nose into other people's business? Isn't that like a violation of one's privacy?

Well it's not so much that I was looking to know about it, it's one of those things that you can't avoid hearing about at work. And the thing was that it bothered me enough to ask the question because I just don't understand if this is a normal thing now or if boyo is in for some trouble or something.

[Lilly]

Originally posted by Raoul:

What if the boyfriend knows and even condones it though?

That'd be understandable if the third wheel girl weren't so gross. The guy seems like the type who can afford to have standards.

[Xero_Daxter]

Idk. Is punching you with my left hand assault? By the way… I’m right handed.

[MinionJoe]

Originally posted by Lilly:

Is kissing cheating?

It depends on the terms of their relationship.

[Good Night Owl]

Originally posted by MinionJoe:

Originally posted by Lilly:

Is kissing cheating?

It depends on the terms of their relationship.

Took the words out of my mouth.

It's not cheating if the partner is aware, and approves of it. Most people would not approve, that's why you're getting an overwhelming "YES", but it really depends on the relationship in truth.