Yall care how many times a girl has slept with another dude?

[ImSoCool599]

Was hanging out with this one girl I was interested in. She told me over summer she went on a senior trip where she stayed in an all guys house and she was the only girl. My first thought was damn she been passed around like a blunt and I instantly lost interest. Not here to have my mind changed, but what do you guys think? Does it affect how you see a potential serious relationship?

[sotaponi]

It appears to be the sign of nihilistic behaviour. Moreso questionable if the woman also dresses in attire that represents the female equivalent to the male "gangster" (e.g. transparent pantyhose + short skirt type; or hotpants). Which seems to be a strangely large number of women. And they don't seem to grow out of it, either. Which is childish.

Aside of it being fundamentally unhygienic and responsible for Cov19 type of epidemics that ultimately ruins it even for more reasonable people. (See also: Monkey pox.)

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Γαῖα:

construct

Lucidity and conscious language are also "constructs," I am sure. That red is not equal to red or that one would rather opt for more ideal and less hedonist forms of love. Which is a construct.

That is, according to an unconscious robot, such considerations would be "constructs." But then there's the question of whether being loved by a robot would even mean anything.

Ultimately, "it's a construct" is a "people are just chemicals" type of statement. It's a form of begging the question. Or think of the statement "unexplainable phenomena 'x' is just the brain filling gaps." Which, too, is begging the question. When in reality they can't explain macro evolution of species or peripheral sense organs, nor their universal forms. Meaning that they can't they explain why certain hormones and chemicals coincide a change in lucidity, much akin to how nuclear fusion coincides dimensional mechanics involving the illusion of time-dilation and even black holes, that is then macro, akin to an eye or visual cortex and related qualia, they cannot explain, in turn rendering these statements as possibly gibberish.

Which also seems overly literal and autistic; no offense intended. With copulatory liberalism incidentally coinciding skyrocketing ASD rates, aside of risking epidemics. That stands in direct contrast to the strange "anal phase" type of ideas promoted by Freud and Reich.

I find that reality appears to be a bit more complex than simple-minded nihilists would like them to be.

[kbiz]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από sotaponi:

It appears to be the sign of nihilistic behaviour. Moreso questionable if the woman also dresses in attire that represents the female equivalent to the male "gangster" (e.g. transparent pantyhose + short skirt type; or hotpants). Which seems to be a strangely large number of women. And they don't seem to grow out of it, either. Which is childish.

Aside of it being fundamentally unhygienic and responsible for Cov19 type of epidemics that ultimately ruins it even for more reasonable people. (See also: Monkey pox.)

Lucidity and conscious language are also "constructs," I am sure. That red is not equal to red or that one would rather opt for more ideal and less hedonist forms of love. Which is a construct.

That is, according to an unconscious robot, such considerations would be "constructs." But then there's the question of whether being loved by a robot would even mean anything.

Ultimately, "it's a construct" is a "people are just chemicals" type of statement. It's a form of begging the question. Or think of the statement "unexplainable phenomena 'x' is just the brain filling gaps." Which, too, is begging the question. When in reality they can't explain macro evolution of species or peripheral sense organs, nor their universal forms. Meaning that they can't they explain why certain hormones and chemicals coincide a change in lucidity, much akin to how nuclear fusion coincides dimensional mechanics involving the illusion of time-dilation and even black holes, that is then macro, akin to an eye or visual cortex and related qualia, they cannot explain, in turn rendering these statements as possibly gibberish.

Which also seems overly literal and autistic; no offense intended. With copulatory liberalism incidentally coinciding skyrocketing ASD rates, aside of risking epidemics. That stands in direct contrast to the strange "anal phase" type of ideas promoted by Freud and Reich.

I find that reality appears to be a bit more complex than simple-minded nihilists would like them to be.

Chick magnet alert.

We don't even know if the girl slept with -any- of the guys. All we know is OP was interested in the girl. And then assumed the worst based on her statement. Of course, OP didn't even ask the girl.

Plus, OP is in college. College is a good time to explore - sex, drugs, politics, the rules. Doesn't mean you continue to live your life that way.

[AlienTestosterone]

Yep that's red flag, but she maybe lying. either way she's a lefty.

[Apollo702]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από kbiz:

[quote=sotaponi

We don't even know if the girl slept with -any- of the guys. All we know is OP was interested in the girl. And then assumed the worst based on her statement. Of course, OP didn't even ask the girl.

Plus, OP is in college. College is a good time to explore - sex, drugs, politics, the rules. Doesn't mean you continue to live your life that way.

That is a much needed return to sanity here. Thank you for that breath of fresh air.

It seems that this one has gone far off the rails where all kinds of apparently sexless people are lashing out- but this sort of thing is almost inevitable.

We have had a generation that knows nothing other than anti-social media, 24/7 of porn/video games/anime... who have minimal life skills, social skills, relationships, actual real sex...

From that POV anybody who actually gets away from the screen and actually has real sex must be a horrible dangerous freak who can't be relationship material, must have diseases... Just read the wild assumptions and negativity(currently 6 pages) here for proof.

I don't say any of this in the spirit of being harsh. It is quite the opposite. An entire generation needs some serious digital detox and to learn the thing called life.

No, the real world isn't perfect. When people get their face out of the screen for just a moment I can't promise it will all be nothing but instant sunshine and wet puppy noses. There are real problems and issues- but we have to at least try. There is actual goodness out there too.

The world is a big and complex place.


Preemptive edit: Before anybody lashes out and says that I am on here too:

The only reason I am on here very much at all is due to medical obliteration. When I return to health my non-work screen time will plummet. Period.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Apollo702:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από kbiz:

That is a much needed return to sanity here. Thank you for that breath of fresh air.

It seems that this one has gone far off the rails where all kinds of apparently sexless people are lashing out- but this sort of thing is almost inevitable.

We have had a generation that knows nothing other than anti-social media, 24/7 of porn/video games/anime... who have minimal life skills, social skills, relationships, actual real sex...

From that POV anybody who actually gets away from the screen and actually has real sex must be a horrible dangerous freak who can't be relationship material, must have diseases... Just read the wild assumptions and negativity(currently 6 pages) here for proof.

I don't say any of this in the spirit of being harsh. It is quite the opposite. An entire generation needs some serious digital detox and to learn the thing called life.

No, the real world isn't perfect. When people get their face out of the screen for just a moment I can't promise it will all be nothing but instant sunshine and wet puppy noses. There are real problems and issues- but we have to at least try. There is actual goodness out there too.

The world is a big and complex place.


Preemptive edit: Before anybody lashes out and says that I am on here too:

The only reason I am on here very much at all is due to medical obliteration. When I return to health my non-work screen time will plummet. Period.

op hasnt said anything so maybe yes

[Stremniy tip]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Ghost Robertson:

Do you guys know that some of the things you have said might be hurtful to some women?

I mean it's not a bad thing to do as long as you're of age and know what you're getting into.

Yeah it's basically "slut shaming", and I would say it's something boys tend to do. Like boys with no experience.

No, proper people and not animals tend to do it.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από kbiz:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από sotaponi:

It appears to be the sign of nihilistic behaviour. Moreso questionable if the woman also dresses in attire that represents the female equivalent to the male "gangster" (e.g. transparent pantyhose + short skirt type; or hotpants). Which seems to be a strangely large number of women. And they don't seem to grow out of it, either. Which is childish.

Aside of it being fundamentally unhygienic and responsible for Cov19 type of epidemics that ultimately ruins it even for more reasonable people. (See also: Monkey pox.)

Lucidity and conscious language are also "constructs," I am sure. That red is not equal to red or that one would rather opt for more ideal and less hedonist forms of love. Which is a construct.

That is, according to an unconscious robot, such considerations would be "constructs." But then there's the question of whether being loved by a robot would even mean anything.

Ultimately, "it's a construct" is a "people are just chemicals" type of statement. It's a form of begging the question. Or think of the statement "unexplainable phenomena 'x' is just the brain filling gaps." Which, too, is begging the question. When in reality they can't explain macro evolution of species or peripheral sense organs, nor their universal forms. Meaning that they can't they explain why certain hormones and chemicals coincide a change in lucidity, much akin to how nuclear fusion coincides dimensional mechanics involving the illusion of time-dilation and even black holes, that is then macro, akin to an eye or visual cortex and related qualia, they cannot explain, in turn rendering these statements as possibly gibberish.

Which also seems overly literal and autistic; no offense intended. With copulatory liberalism incidentally coinciding skyrocketing ASD rates, aside of risking epidemics. That stands in direct contrast to the strange "anal phase" type of ideas promoted by Freud and Reich.

I find that reality appears to be a bit more complex than simple-minded nihilists would like them to be.

Chick magnet alert.

We don't even know if the girl slept with -any- of the guys. All we know is OP was interested in the girl. And then assumed the worst based on her statement. Of course, OP didn't even ask the girl.

Plus, OP is in college. College is a good time to explore - sex, drugs, politics, the rules. Doesn't mean you continue to live your life that way.

"College is a good time to explore - sex, drugs, politics, the rules"
Wasting is not good, just because you did it doesn't mean it is good

[Stremniy tip]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από M200:

No, proper people and not animals tend to do it.

There is nothing 'proper' about being a judgemental snob who attaches a sense of personal elitism to their preferences. People like you only cause problems in this world.

Subjective opinion of yours, I do not care about it.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Eréndira:

Why did you assume that about her? You never seen girls be cool with guys with no hidden intentions on both sides before? That’s weird.

But yes, I do care to a certain extent because values matter & I treat sex with a level of respect that I just can’t relate to others who think of it differently.

Because most of girls, especially in college, are like this nowadays. Not all, not even in my place where I live, such people with such life full of adultery, such people are rare in my area.

[KennyAtom]

i think you should ask this somewhere where users actually have a chance of having sex.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από KennyAtom:

i think you should ask this somewhere where users actually have a chance of having sex.

There is no such place in the digital world, except some messenger apps. Also, having sex doesn't make you a better person, adultery doesn't improve your quality, rather decreases it, because you become no better than an animal whos life purpose is to have sex, eat, sleep and die.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Munithe EXT:

It's not subjective. You have delusions of grandeur. That is a fact.

It is subjective, you didn't bring up anything to make it objective.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Munithe EXT:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από M200:

It is subjective, you didn't bring up anything to make it objective.

You did that on your own. Of course you wouldn't recognise your own delusion, you haven't rationalised it yet. So I won't waste my time entertaining you further. Or ever again.

Delusion about what? That adultery is bad? That is not a delusion, that is something that keeps me human and makes me somewhat outstand from those animals.

Edit: "So I won't waste my time entertaining you further."
You did already, you do daily by just commenting on those forums, so you shouldn't really have an issue with me.

[Paratech2008]

I prefer monogamous relationships. If a woman is promiscuous, she get get knocked up by someone else and try to say it's your baby, plus the more sexually active your partner is, the bigger chances you have of getting an STD. Condoms are ok, but I'd not trust my life to them.

[Stremniy tip]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Eréndira:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από M200:

Because most of girls, especially in college, are like this nowadays. Not all, not even in my place where I live, such people with such life full of adultery, such people are rare in my area.

It’s not fair to assume anything if you weren’t there to witness. You said “not all” which tells you not every girl is like that. It’s a hurtful thing to do especially to someone you say you like.

If it is the US, then I am certain, also some bigger cities in Europe/EU.

"It’s a hurtful thing to do especially to someone you say you like."
Well, I just avoid that kind of people, so I do not say it directly in their faces, unless they really push their lifestyle into my face.