Marriageable Altmer Males
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Altbert  [author] Oct 26 @ 12:36pm 
Ondolemar is also engaged in the "Diplomatic Immunity" quest. If you have completed this quest, there's still no guarantee for marriage with him! You may be turned down!
trracer13 Oct 26 @ 12:33am 
I have this mod because it sounds amazing and needed, but its not working for me. I wanted to marry Ondolemar and I did the quest he gives you. Also I have not done The 'diplomacy' quest yet. Is there anything I can do to fix this problem? Or is it out of my hands? BTW thanks for the mod.
Altbert  [author] Oct 3 @ 2:29pm 
@juliane: No, you don't need to start a new character, but a clean save would be appropriate!
juliane Oct 3 @ 2:26pm 
I have no other mods installed, but the three dlc (HF, DG, DB). The mod doesn't seem to be working. Do i have to start a new charakter ? Is there something else i could try?
Altbert  [author] Sep 21 @ 12:39am 
@Emma: No, this mod doesn't make marriable NPCs also followers, and it's also not part of the marriage deal. For an NPC to be both marriable and a follower, the NPC needs to be a member of two different factions.
Emma Sep 20 @ 9:16pm 
I haven't tried the mod yet, but does this mod also make marriable Altmer followers as well? Or is being a follower part of the marriage deal to begin with?
Altbert  [author] Sep 15 @ 1:48am 
No, the links are only in the description above, but they are all combined in my collections.
Poweredbipussie Sep 14 @ 7:42pm 
can i get all the links u show in this one download?
Altbert  [author] Aug 27 @ 12:42pm 
If the problem is in Skyrim's radiant AI system, I can't fix it, and it probably is!
Fionny Aug 27 @ 12:08pm 
Nelacar doesn't seem to be working, and from the comment by Addai67 it seems as though this has been something going on for a while. Are there any plans on fixing it?
shua24 Jul 28 @ 1:43am 
where are da peoples?
Altbert  [author] Jan 29 @ 7:39am 
All the Altmer are vanilla and have not been added elsewhere in the game. That's why I put the warning in. The 'diplomacy' quest lets you infiltrate in the Thalmor Embassy and makes the Thalmor hostile towards the player.
meliamc01 Jan 28 @ 6:08pm 
Love the mods!! One question though, I read in the Marriage book that you could marry Altmer like Estormo and other Thalmor that could get killed during a quest, do you add them somewhere else or can you marry the first one in vanilla skyrim?? Again thanks for the amazing mods!
Mew Mar 10, 2013 @ 12:29pm 
@Altbert Thanks for your quick reply, I guess maybe he's just not meant for my Dragonborn :)
Altbert  [author] Mar 9, 2013 @ 3:10pm 
@Méw: Sorry, but I really don't know! The only thing I have in mind is Skyrim's Radiant AI system that randomizes NPC behavior. Maybe you have to wait for a few ingame days and get back to him, and maybe even more than once. I have had the same experience with my own mod(s). When activating the mod, nobody seemed to be interest, but after a few ingame days all NPCs in the mod were interested.
Mew Mar 9, 2013 @ 2:50pm 
Well, done all quests involving him and I still don't have an option. I remember people mentioning problems with Nelacar - him and Ondolemarshare the VA, can the problem be related to that?
Mew Mar 8, 2013 @ 11:16am 
@Altbert I got teh Talos amulet for him. I guess I will need to do Diplomatic Immunity and see if he will change his mind :)
Altbert  [author] Mar 8, 2013 @ 1:44am 
@Méw: Thanks! Ondolemar shouldn't be a problem, he has the same specs as for instance Nelacar. Could be the Radiant AI system. Have you completed all quests he is involved with?

@Dareena & others: Fasendil can not be put up for marriage because he is not a unique NPC.
Mew Mar 7, 2013 @ 3:15pm 
First of all - I really appriciate all the hard work you have put in your mods, you are simply amazing, giving us such a freedom to choose our spouses. I find your mods a must-have addition in my games and would like to thank you for taking time and creating them.
The only problem I have is that this one seems to be working for all except Ondolemar.
Dareena Feb 23, 2013 @ 11:09am 
Oh please add Legate Fasendil if it possible!
jcstormy Dec 30, 2012 @ 6:14am 
The only mod I had to alter NPCs was the one that allowed the housecarl to stop treating my char like a stranger in her own house but I've removed disabled that to see if that fixes anything. Fingers crossed. Thanks! :D
Altbert  [author] Dec 29, 2012 @ 3:13am 
Weird! Do you use other mods that alter NPCs? Have you already tried a mod manager to check for possible conflicts? Try BOSS.
jcstormy Dec 27, 2012 @ 7:29pm 
Yeah, I did; in all of its incarnations around the province just in case I'd missed something. The market places, bars and palaces seem to be running a shortage in mine. lol
Altbert  [author] Dec 27, 2012 @ 4:28pm 
Did you already read the marriage book ...
jcstormy Dec 27, 2012 @ 3:58pm 
Maybe it's me but random truly is random (as in never found) and those found have no dialog. Oh, well. :P
kirara Dec 26, 2012 @ 4:26am 
Legate Fasendil, please!!!
Addai67 Dec 25, 2012 @ 11:39pm 
I understand, I'm very grateful for modders' work. Only wanted suggestions. :)
Altbert  [author] Dec 24, 2012 @ 5:20pm 
What can I say? I don't give any guarantees, just like in real life. I haven't figured out how Skyrim's radiant AI system works with marriages, but I suppose it is random. If so, let it be for some ingame days and try again.
brendano1999 Dec 24, 2012 @ 3:32pm 
also addai, some times they work because they alreay have a character with the same voice type that can be married and i dont think nelacar has one.
brendano1999 Dec 24, 2012 @ 3:31pm 
legate fasendil, you know cuz, hes not a prick
Addai67 Dec 8, 2012 @ 12:46pm 
Hi there, I am unable to get this to work on Nelacar. I have your Dunmer male mod and the same PC can get the marriage dialogue with Erandur, but Nelacar resists her. *weep* I did the Azura quest already and sided with him. Any suggestions?
Vargnatt Nov 24, 2012 @ 8:46am 
+1 suggestion for Legate Fasendil
Differently Rational Oct 16, 2012 @ 2:52pm 
The mod seems to work for everyone but Ondolemar, who I've been after since I got the game.
Diamond Boots Oct 7, 2012 @ 12:24pm 
It's not like you can't marry any of those races if you are a certain gender, it's that you can't marry any of those races if THEY are a certain gender. Unless you're talking heterosexual marriages only.
Altbert  [author] Sep 30, 2012 @ 4:05am 
I will look into it, maybe next revision.
Quixotic32 Sep 30, 2012 @ 3:55am 
might I suggest adding Legate Fasendil to this list? (Rift Imperial Camp)