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Furthermore, "the N-word" is not racist. It's offensive. Racism is discrimination and prejudice of someone based on their race. The N-word was used to demean and offend black people in the times of slavery in the United States, which makes it offensive if used in a demeaning manner, but a word cannot be racist, because a word cannot hold prejudices. The person uttering it in a demeaning manner, directed at a person with the intent f offending them is racist, but the word is not. It's just offensive.
My question to you is: Why are you offended by it? Are you black? Is he saying it directly to you in a demeaning fashion?
Logic people, logic.
He swears exclusively at us, but not at his employees or friends, even when they made my dad flip sh*t.
And maybe tell him you won't have his back if he ever gets physically assaulted over it. ;)
I cringe (real use of the word, not this ridiculous modern appropriation of the verb as a noun or adjective for use only as an excuse for lack of vocabulary) whenever I hear someone yelling and swearing in public place.I go bright red and honsstly feel embarrassed for those people invovled.
I live under their roof and it always seems like I'd burden them to ask them to not do something they've always done before I moved in. As person to person, it wouldn't hurt to ask. As new band mate asking for changes to the written song, it's awkward especially when the communication isn't all there in the first place..
Totally understand where you're coming from.
It's really hard to give any really definite advice since obviosuly I don't know the people involved, the entire circumstance/situation nor how they may react at all - but I do appreciate your points.
I honestly think that the best place to start is just talk it over with your spouse and take it from there.
Having spent 6 months living on my brother-in-law's couch (which was the only space aside from their bedroom and bathroom) even the littlest things can get exaggerated!
I'd never say it to any of my dear black friends, sexy black lovers, wonderful black neighbors, helpful black co-workers because it's just not relevant to them. They aren't n*****s, just black people, and I happen to adore them.
When I'm up North, things are totally different. Black people on the sidewalk instead of in the middle of the street... it's fantastic!