Some days ago I noticed that Lydia was no longer in my Breezehome; I don't use her as my follower that much because I like to leave her home with the two kids my character adopted. I thought that maybe it was a hiccup and if I waited X time she would return - she still hasn't.
Flash foward to last night - I'm in with Serena looking for her mother (Dawnguard DLC) and she gives me the whole "Have you ever cared about anyone" conversation, and then I see this as one of my options: "Well there's my husband..."
I have never and will never (Don't turn this into a social/political rant, this is how I personally play) choose a same-gender marriage in this game. I have no clue if this too is just some bug and it meant to say 'wife' or if my character is now somehow randomly married to a mystery guy.
I'd rather not jump back to X days and lose a nice amount of progress; I will try to use console commands to move myself to all the female npcs that I can marry, but I just wanted to know if there was a quicker way. I'm pretty confused at the moment, seeing that Lydia isn't in all the other homes I own (I own all but Riften home).
Anyone else experience this or have any idea on what to do?