I just completed the Companions quest and immediately married Aela The Huntress. She disappeared right after the wedding. I have 3 homes: Breezehome, Honeyside, and Windstrad Manor. I also adopted 2 kids before getting married they are in Breezehome (the boy just added a pet mudcrab on the 2nd trip looking for Aela). I have fast-traveled to each of my homes looking for her and I also checked Jorvassr and the Underforge. I want to move my family to Windstrad but evidently I need to talk to the wife to move them. What do I do?