So here I am, having driven Alduin to Sovngarde, talked to the Jarl of Whiterun, Gotten the Greybeards to host a peace conference, and even gotten General Tulius to agree to go to said conference....I didn't take sides in the civil war. I had wanted to remain neutral, as it were. I can't get Ulfric to open a dialogue with me. Apparently I took the join the stormcloaks quest, and didn't remember doing it. Now, all he says is "Didn't Galmar give you something to do? Go do it!" Sigh. Fine I'll go kill the stupid ice wraith. I do so. Go back to the palace, and of course, since I'm dumb, I take the oath. Since apparently we hop right from one quest to another, I now have to look for some stupid crown with Galmar, and STILL can't open a dialogue with Ulfric. GAHHHH! Given this development, I would say that the lack of a drop quest function has got to be one of the biggest oversights on the developer's parts. I can deal with the occassional crashes, NPCs walking in circles and standing on beds...but the lack of such a simple function??? Come on guys, WTF were you thinking???